So, with an understanding heart, let’s read what is expected of Christian
women. Yes, it’s a touchy subject but we all want to please God so let's
look into it shall we?
Paul writes ... In
the same way, women should clothe themselves in decent apparel, with
shamefacedness (showing modesty, bashful) and sobriety (restrained), not
with broided (embellished or elaborate) hair or gold or pearls, or costly
array, but with good works, which is proper for women claiming godliness.
Let
the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to
teach, nor to have authority over the man,
Genesis 3:16
but to be in silence. For Adam was first created, then Eve. And Adam
was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression
(wrong). Nevertheless, she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue
in Faith and Love and holiness with sobriety (control).
I want to take this time
to reveal the TRUTH that God said in the last days God would pour out His
Spirit upon ALL flesh and your sons and daughters shall prophesy.
Acts 2:17
So obviously when God's Spirit (Holy
Spirit) is speaking THROUGH a woman, Paul's words do not apply as
it is NOT the woman speaking and teaching, but rather ... GOD
I couldn’t
help but notice in my sojourning over the years that most women of today
strive for the exact opposite of what Paul says is good and acceptable in
the eyes of the Lord.
Let’s take what
Paul wrote a lil at a time, and see how the modern day woman matches up
shall we? Women should wear modest clothing, with
shamefacedness and sobriety. Let’s be honest, what percentage of the
women that you know, wear MODEST clothing? Now, moving on to the next
few things, "women should wear their hair plain, and
they shouldn’t wear gold, pearls, or costly array" ... Uh oh, the
percentage just went down substantially, did it not?
What is that old cliche'
that is drilled in every lil girl's head? ... "Diamonds are a girl's best
friend" ... Maybe they need to trade up friends and seek one a lil less
temporal. Okay, let’s look at the last part, women
should live in a godly manner, learn quietly and never teach or try and rule
or have power over the man, but be in silence. Oh my ... We
have a problem Houston.
How many godly
women do you know that adhere to these qualities being God's idea of a
righteous woman? Where did the idea come from that women are supposed to be
the opposite of what God intended? We have all heard all the cute lil
cliches over the years leading up to the path that we are on ... "You've
come a long way baby" ... "I am woman hear me roar" ... Etc. Just cuz the
world is following this new trend where the woman seeks independence and to
"wear the pants" don't you believe it. Inside EVERY woman is the God given
natural desire to be loved and nurtured. She wants to have the chair pulled
out for her as they sit down for a meal. She wants to have doors opened for
her. She wants to be treated ... Like a LADY.
In TRUTH ... Women are
seeking a man that will conform to the instinctive mental and spiritual
image that each woman has of a man. That is yet another reason there is so
much adultery and divorce. A woman marries a man she can control to be in
harmony with the worldly assessment of the modern day women and yet secretly
... Seeks that which is natural.
Now seriously,
we’ve all seen horrific crimes being committed against women on the rise
more and more in recent years. Why do you think that is? Could it be because
women in general do not follow the guidelines that God has set for them?
What if they did? Would the crime rate against women go down? Absolutely !!!
Now this by no means excuses the evil beasts that harm women, but it does
reveal the TRUTH that if women followed God's guidelines, they would not
find themselves in bars late at night which is where the evil beasts are or
running around half dressed which is what the evil beats seek. And if this
woman has on her shiny diamond necklace or ring ... That is just an added
attraction to these evil beasts.
If you’re a woman,
and know not TRUTH, you’re probably sitting there with a lifted eyebrow,
shaking that head of yours with pride just boiling in your blood, but stick
with me here for just a minute and try and see this from a different point
of view. THEN throw your tantrum IF you still feel the need.
Men and women
inherited their roles from the judgment that God placed on Adam and Eve
waaaaaaay back in
Genesis 3:16-19. Paul points this out,
saying, Look, the very first time woman had the opportunity, she did the
wrong thing. So, God said, Woman is under man’s authority. Every
woman since then, like it or not, inherited this. (I’m sure snakes, the
world over, are complaining too, about running around on their belly.
Genesis 3:14
Let's check
the spiritual fruits on this shall we? If a woman and her husband are
watching television and the front door is kicked in and there stands two
thugs, can you FATHOM the woman looking over at her husband and saying ....
Finish your show hun, I will take care of this. The answer is NO. It is
NATURAL for the man to be the man and for the woman to be .... The woman.
If you want to
live the life of a Christian woman, acceptable in the sight of God, ask
yourself, how can I do that if I don’t obey Him. The answer is . . . You
can’t. What are you afraid of losing? Power? Well, God says that power
doesn’t belong to a woman to begin with. How can one lose something they
don’t have? If you spend your life trying to change God’s plan, where will
it get you? Won’t you be much closer to God if you follow the path that He
laid out?
You can recognize a Christian woman when you see her.
Here is the Bible's recipe for a
Virtuous woman.