popples, I felt like there was some reason I was reading about your life and trials... something more then just catching up.
the thing that came to me was that you were hearing God thru it all. when you stopped and talked to Him, He showed you what to do, He guided you and encouraged you and you did not doubt that He was there... even when you fell, you saw that it was satan and not God and that He was there to pick you back up
then the other thing that hit me was the hurt you were feeling in church and I had to tell you that man made religion, not God. you should not have to go thru man's judgement because you are already blessed by God. the Pharisees did that to Jesus and look what happened. they seemed like godly men who lived by rules and didn't hear God.
popples, there are some amazing churches that are full gospel, Holy Spirit filled that will understand you and accept you as we do... as God does. You are a new person, the old has died! God doesn't judge you according to your past, your church shouldn't either.
look up Hillsong to see how free you can be. Ask God what church you should go to, you hear Him... let Him show you where He wants you be... He has a bigger plan for you. don't let anyone get in the way... listen to Him
Father, I ask that you show gwen the plan you have for her
I ask that you fill her with new understanding and new strength
Jesus, I ask for more healing for her
supernatually touch her and heal the cancer
Jesus, touch that child and bring healing and peace
in your mighty name I pray Jesus