What do we mean by destiny in marriage

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I have been listening to a lot of people talking recently about Let God find someone for you, and someone said that we make mistakes when we choose so divorce is ok, just let God choose the next one for you. You know that isnt right, how can a person even consider that. God Said tht the only reason for divorce is adultry and fornication. End of subject. Period. I was married to a wonderful woman, and at one point and time, we hated each other, she hated me because I wouldnt see things her way when it came to God, and I hated her because she wanted me to believe it. Guess what I already did. You know if two people end up togeather. How can we say God didnt put them togeather, does not God control all, Its not God tht messed up my marriage for so long, it was us. God can only work in a marriage, when both partners come to the point that they believe that a change must come, and that change is God as the head ofthe family, and the man has to become a man and do what He is commanded to do by God. And that is to become the spiritual leader in the Home and teach the others in the family the way of the Lord. In other words get off the couch, get your bible out and read till God give youi instruction for your family. If you love the women, fight for her. The fight isnt with her. Its with Satan that is controling you both. So you need the whole armour of God. His Word to fight with. Stop blaming one another and start blaming the one that is distroying the both of you ...Satan is His Name, and distruction is His Game. And your Leting him. So dont tell me about how much you dont love her now. Because you loved her when you married her. And she loved you. so put down the excuses and pick up the Bible.

I dont believe there is a person out there, specifically for you. I do believe that the person that you end up with, by choice, is the person God wants you to be with. Its up to the two of you to become the oneness that God wants you to be. This is your destiny, this is how you become soulmates. It is a process from God, not a gift from God. Meaning only this, we have a choice. Believe togeather as one spirit obiedient to God, or let our marriages become wreckless, and careless serving Satan.