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Hello, i suffer from Homosexuality and I've tried almost everything to try and get the feelings to go away, but they won't. Having these feelings are so tiring, hurtful, frustrating, and irrational. It just makes be feel depression and lonely. So, today i'm asking for a therapist to help get rid of these feelings, Please someone help...

Hello Carter,

Welcome to Christianity Oasis! We are glad God has led you here to seek help from the temptations you are facing. Here is the link to the Oasis counseling program. It is a 14 day program and a path of healing. www.christianityoasis.com/cccc/forum.htm

You will not find judgement here. Only love and support from Christians who also suffer from their own trials and temptations. May you be encouraged on your journey.

Take care

Thanks, it's day 5 of the program for me.

Hello Carter

Welcome to Christianity Oasis.

I am glad you are reading the 14 Day study.

I just want to remind you that The Lord God Almighty loves you so very, very much.

God bless and keep you,
Sister Mack

Hi Carter,

Day 5 already...that is wonderful. Keep up the great progress!

Take care

Thank you all!! Day 13 now and I'm feeling better, but the feelings are still here. I know I must be patient though!

Carter it is wonderful to see you have made it to day 13. Just know that you are well on your way to winning this battle. The fight is a journey. Sometimes it can be a lifelong journey, but with each passing day that you are able to withstand temptation, your ability to do so will become even stronger. Jesus will be there beside you always, and He will help you with these feelings if you call out to Him. Jesus loves you and wants to help you.

Take care and God Bless

What do i do when family ask "Why you don't have a girlfriend yet?" or other questions that may question my sexuality? I couldn't possibly tell them my situation they just wouldn't understand.

Hi Carter,

Maybe tell them the truth....that you are focusing on strengthening your relationship with God. That they will understand.

Carter what are some things you are doing to refocus your thoughts?

Take care

I'm not going to tell them that


Some things I do to refocus my thoughts are reading, cry, think about how bad my feelings are, stay away from people (although I wouldn't have a choice even if I tried to meet people), sing church music, read the bible, pray, sing, etc.

Hi Carter,

I see you turn to some Godly things, which is always a great choice as it is where you will find peace. Keep seeking the things of the Lord and you will find the feelings of sinful thought fade away.

God Bless you

mlg wrote:Hi Carter,

I see you turn to some Godly things, which is always a great choice as it is where you will find peace. Keep seeking the things of the Lord and you will find the feelings of sinful thought fade away.

God Bless you

Thank you for this!