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Christianity Oasis Ministry has provided you with this Self Injury Self Harm study with Self Injury Self Harm support. This Self Injury Self Harm counseling program with Self Injury Self Harm cure looks at the Self Injury Self Harm message and asks what is Self Injury Self Harm, why is Self Injury Self Harm popular, what is the Self Injury Self Harm reason, what is the Self Injury Self Harm purpose, why is Self Injury Self Harm dangerous and is there Self Injury Self Harm healing. Only those who are involved in Self Injury Self Harm know what it is like to cause Self Injury Self Harm. These Self Injury Self Harm victims are oft times left in a darkness that negatively affects their lives and the lives of those close to them. Is there a healing path for Self Injury Self Harm? Let us seek and find the truth of Self Injury Self Harm with Self Injury Self Harm healing together in this Self Injury Self Harm journey, shall we?

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I’m so glad that you decided to continue to keep going with me!

Sooooooo…let’s talk more about this feeling and ideology that being a self injurer is part of who you are.  Most of us who self harm, truly believe that.  We feel like we’ve lost part or most of our true identity because self harm has become a huge part of our life.

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What are some of the descriptions those who self harm use about themselves?

 Used.  Broken.  Torn.  Stained.  Tainted.  Damaged.  Shattered.  Unfixable.  Unnoticed. Cold.  Heartless.  Lifeless.  Stupid.  Ugly.  Fat.  Weak.  Garbage. 

USELESS AND UNWORTHY

God couldn’t possibly use you for anything…

God? 

What does God have to do with any of this?

He has EVERYTHING to do with it. 

Simply because it was HIM who made YOU.

Isaiah 49:1
… The LORD hath called me from the womb; from the bowels of my mother hath he made mention of my name.

 

Psalm 139:13
For thou hast possessed my reins: thou hast covered me in my mother's womb.

 

Genesis 1:27
So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.

He created you in your mother’s womb. 

He knew you before you were even born.

Weird, huh?

It's like creating a piece of art…

or a writing a song…

You ENVISION this finished masterpiece in your head first.  Then… as you start working on it, you might tweak it here and there… not because you messed up… but because as you work on it more and more… you find ways to make it even better!

Art is not simply paint, canvas, and brushes.  It’s the story you can see behind the finished piece of art.

Music is not simply black notes written on a page.  It’s the lyrics, melody, beat and passion you hear behind the composition.

It is YOU-NIQUE

Just as you are.

HAND CRAFTED

SELF INJURY SELF HARM TRUTH WITH SELF INJURY SELF HARM BLESSING BRINGING FORTH SELF INJURY SELF HARM HOPE

God designed you by hand.

Psalm 119:73
Thy hands have made me and fashioned me …

Though you may have similarities to other people, there is not one soul with the exact same as YOU.

Your smile was designed specifically for you.

Your laugh is unique.

Your gifts and talents are God-given.

Your personality is like no one else.  No one else has the exact same footprint shape in the sand.

You are a pearl… a treasure… hidden within.

No one’s shell looks exactly like yours.

No one’s shell has been in all the same places as you.

No one has the same inner or outer beauty as the pearl you are.

No one has the same sparkle and shine as your heart is made to have.

No one has the same experiences. 

No one can reach the people you can the exact same way.  Some people can only be reached and helped by you… because no one can understand them, except you.  You have the experiences to really understand them.  To really know how they feel.
 

God,

You know our lives and You know US.

   We’re an open book to You; even from a distance, you know what we’re thinking.

   You know when we leave and when we get back;  We’re never out of Your sight.

   You know everything we’re going to say before we start the first sentence.

   We look behind us and You're there, then up ahead and You're there, too—

      Your reassuring presence is always with us.


 

Psalm 139:1-5
O lord, thou hast searched me, and known me. Thou knowest my downsitting and mine uprising, thou understandest my thought afar off.  Thou compassest my path and my lying down, and art acquainted with all my ways.  For there is not a word in my tongue, but, lo, O LORD, thou knowest it altogether.  Thou hast beset me behind and before, and laid thine hand upon me.

 


You’re special. 

In all the world there’s nobody like you.

Since the beginning of time there has never been another person like you.

Nobody has your thoughts, nobody has your eyes, your nose, your hair, your hands, your voice.

You’re special. 

No one can be found who has your handwriting.

Nobody anywhere has your tastes for food, clothing, music, or art.

No one sees things just as you do.

In all of time there’s been no one who laughs like you, no one who cries like you, and what makes you cry or laugh will never produce identical laughter and tears from anybody else, ever.

You’re the only YOU in all of creation.

Oh, there will always be somebody who is better at one of the things you’re good at, but no one in the universe can reach the quality of your combination of talents, ideas, abilities and feelings.  Like a room full of musical instruments, some may excel alone, but none can match the symphony sound when all are played together. 

You’re a symphony.

Through all of eternity, no one will ever look, walk, talk, think or do like you.

You’re special…you’re rare.

And in all rarity there is great value. 

Because of your great value you need no attempt to imitate others…you will accept--yes, celebrate your differences.

You’re special and you’re beginning to realize it’s no accident that you’re special.

You’re beginning to see that God made you special for a purpose.

He must have a job for you that no one else can do as well as you.

Out of billions of applicants, only one is qualified, only one has the right combination of what it takes.

That one is you, because… you’re special.

--Annoymous

 

 YOU ARE ONE OF A KIND

 You know how we might try to change our appearance and/or personality to either get people to like us more (including ourselves)?

There’s no need for that anymore. 

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We were made and designed by the same God that created the world, the universe, the stars, the birds… EVERYTHING.

He created us.

For us to try to change who we really are only insults Him… and can get in the way of the awesome plan He has for us.

We don’t have to put that effort into perfecting ourselves any longer… but just be who we are.

 

Remember in our first talk when we talked about how it feels at times like our struggle with self harm has become part of our identity?

I’m a cutter.

I’m a pill popper.

I’m a burner.

I’m a scratcher.

I’m a banger.

I’m an alcoholic.

I’m a purger.

I’m an addict.

Now… we can have a different view of it. 

We are NOT those things. 

Not even one of them. 

We are a treasure in Christ. 

We ARE something special.

Oh yes,

You shaped us first inside, then out; You formed us in our mother's womb.

   … Body and soul, we are marvelously made! 

   You know us inside and out, You know every bone in our bodies;

   You know exactly how we were made, bit by bit, how we were sculpted from nothing into something.

   Like an open book, You watched us grow from conception to birth; all the stages of our lives were spread out before you,

  The days of our lives all prepared before we even lived one day.

Psalm 139:13-16
For thou hast possessed my reins: thou hast covered me in my mother's womb. ... for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.  My substance was not hid from thee, when I was made in secret, and curiously wrought in the lowest parts of the earth. Thine eyes did see my substance, yet being unperfect; and in thy book all my members were written, which in continuance were fashioned, when as yet there was none of them.

IMAGINE A HUGE SAND DUNE…

God’s precious thoughts about us outweigh the number of grains of sand…

Psalm 139:17-18
How precious also are thy thoughts unto me, O God! how great is the sum of them! If I should count them, they are more in number than the sand ... 

Wow… That’s a lot of precious thoughts about one person!

So, back to the original question:

What are some of the descriptions those who self harm use about themselves?

Used.  Broken.  Torn.  Stained.  Tainted.  Damaged.  Shattered.  Unfixable. Unnoticed. Cold. Heartless.  Lifeless.  Stupid.  Ugly.  Fat.  Weak.  Garbage. 

USELESS AND UNWORTHY

God couldn’t possibly use you for anything…

We now know those lies couldn’t be any farther from TRUTH.

Starting to get a different perspective of yourself yet?

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Let’s journal about that today …Maybe jot down the difference between how we used to see ourselves verses how God sees us (and how we SHOULD see us).  Maybe jot down a thank you prayer to God thanking Him for spending so much time making you unique.  Ask that He begin to change your heart from within as we struggle with how we view ourselves.  What stood out to you today?  Is there anything you have a hard time accepting?  Why do you think that is?  What would help you overcome it?

Maybe add some notes on your bathroom mirror about how beautiful you are and how unique God made.  Pick out your favorite verses from today so you can be reminded every time you look in the mirror.  Every time you think you’re ugly or useless… remind yourself how much thought God put into making you. 

You’re beautiful, unique, and perfect… just the way you were made to be.

 

I’ll see you on the next page when you are ready to continue!
 

 
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