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this afternoon after a HUGE fight we promised each other 1 corinthians 13:4. I meant it with all I am.

but i cant do this, i found a message from a woman that could be anything really but he hid it and others. And if there is nothing to hide why hide it?

There is no hope for me. I cant let go and he cant be honest.

Thank you ALL so very much for your encouraging words and wisdom, but I dont think there is any chance of this being saved no hope. i know God can do anything, but our hearts have to be right to want it. I guess I just dont want it enough, my heart is too hard!

heya sis...

i dont know what the message was...and im not gonna guess..but could it be possible that he hid cuz he was afraid of your reaction? Like i said, i dont know what it was but if it could be anything, maybe think and pray before you decide you dont have the heart for this.

also, dont give up on what the Lord wants to do in you...through these steps. This walk you are on with Him is your personal one. Its between you and your Lord. Dont give up.

we are here if you wanna talk. or you can private message anyone of us, too, if you want. Either way, we are here for you.

ill be praying for you.

God's will be done.

in Jesus,
love momo

gings well my sister...here's what I encourage you to do...continue the steps...and grow in your relationship with God...don't worry about your marriage or all that is going on with it...take the next 12 days and dedicate yourself to God and growing in Him...remember God will be there with you always and He will never forsake you...so finish for Him...and make this about Him.

Praying for you and here to listen always.

luv ya

Yes gings, don't stop now. It's really a good program that reaches into places you don't realize. Like mlg said, do it for yourself right now.

Nice to meet you

Gings I hope you take the advice found above. Your marriage is only for this life time while your relationship with God is for eternity.

Praying for you.