Hi, goldie. I know how you are feeling. It gets so overwhelming and confusing.
There are lots of things I use. They all point me back to the Lord and His love.
PRAY, Come here to Oasis in chat,

read the bible (Psalms are good or the gospels!), listen to Christian music, watch Christian movies, read Christian books, fellowship with Christians....anything to get your focus off the problems and back onto Christ.
A really cool thing I've learned to do is start a conversation with the Holy Spirit. It's like praying, but a lil different. Talk to Him just like you would talk to anybody. Tell Him everything and ask Him to give you comfort and peace. He really is there for you, goldie. He will show you too, if you listen.
Goldie, please know you aren't alone. God is here for you and so are we. He works through us so we can help you. We really do care about you.
Love you, goldie. God bless you with the peace, love and joy of Jesus.
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