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BROKEN HEARTS HEALING
Christianity Oasis Ministry has provided you with this Broken Hearts Healing study. Broken hearts are quite frequent when we allow our emotions to overcome our understanding and broken hearts healing is essential.


 

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 BROKEN HEARTS HEALING

Most of us, at some point in time in our lives, have had our hearts broken due to someone's words or deeds or something that occurred. The resulting broken heart can put us in a state of depression and darkness, which can become almost unbearable.

Many choose to just choose to accept living with this broken heart.

No my friends ... There is no gain in this for man or God. This soul needs to ask the TRUE question. And that TRUE question is ... How does one become healed from a broken heart?

Let us seek the answer within the Bible ...

Again ... There are lots of sources of a broken heart. It us usually due to the feeling of being hurt by someone or something that occurred.

Many obtain this broken heart when they lose personal possessions or something they considered as being theirs. Others feel this broken heart when they lose loved ones. These souls that they lost are deemed as being THEIRS in their mind and heart and when these "possessions" are taken away, the soul feels hurt and seeks someone to blame. In many cases, the soul even chooses to blame God.

If only we would understand these words shared with us in God's Word ...
 

1 Timothy 6:7
For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out.
 

We need to RENEW our minds with this TRUTH ...

NOTHING IS OURS ... Everything that we obtain on Earth is temporal.

As far as material possessions that come and go in life ...

HEAR the TRUTH ... Our treasures are to be in HEAVEN ...
 

Matthew 6:19-21
Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: But lay up for yourselves treasures in Heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal: For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.

In the event that a soul loses a loved one to death or divorce, it may help ease the pain for us to UNDERSTAND ... This understanding may just be the answer to mending the heart. God wants you to be happy again. He hasn’t forgotten or abandoned you. He will never forget you.

I’d like for you to open your mind and heart to some things that may bring you closer to the understanding that can heal your fragile heart. We know that God has reasons for what He does, and we have to TRUST that the things that happen in our lives, though they may seem tragic, may be His will.

WE MUST OBTAIN UNDERSTANDING ...
 

1 Thessalonians 4:13-18
But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with Him. For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep. For the Lord Himself shall descend from Heaven with a shout, with the voice of the ArchAngel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first: Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord. Wherefore comfort one another with these words.
 

Understanding, believing, and trusting that your loved one is truly in a better place now is vital to healing. The life that we hope for as Christians, the life we long for and await every day of our lives is the life that your loved one is now enjoying. To grieve for them, is to grieve for their receiving the reward … The promise, that we all live for.
 

1 John 2:25
And this is the promise that he hath promised us, even eternal life.

While this TRUTH is known to us down deep, our hearts still search for reasons why. Why did God have to take them? If we could just understand why … We feel like we could accept it better and our delicate heart could be on the mend. Let’s look at some reasons why.

DELIVERED FROM EVIL

It may be that God didn’t take your loved one from you, but perhaps He set them free from something that they were suffering or that might have happened if He didn’t.
 

Isaiah 57:1-2
The righteous perisheth, and no man layeth it to heart: and merciful men are taken away, none considering that the righteous is taken away from the evil to come. He shall enter into peace: they shall rest in their beds, each one walking in his uprightness.

Only God knows what the future holds for us. If there was something that God didn’t want your loved one to experience, that may be the reason why. People always try and console others who lose a loved one by saying “They’re in a better place now.” Nothing could be closer to the TRUTH.

What about our loved ones suffering before they pass to the next realm? Sometimes when we wonder why God “allows” people to suffer prior to death of the body, maybe we’re just looking at it wrong.

Maybe we need to look at it like this, He’s not letting them become weak, but rather are becoming stronger IN them because when we’re weak, we turn to Him for strength and comfort and we should rejoice that He gives us the opportunity to be “made perfect” before He frees us from our earthly bodies to become His Angels.

Another TRUTH to ponder on ... These are GOD'S children, not OUR possession. Even our husbands and wives. They are merely a GIFT given by God while we are here, but once one or the other dies, the marriage is HISTORY ...
 

Matthew 22:23-30
The same day came to him the Sadducees, which say that there is no resurrection, and asked him, Saying, Master, Moses said, If a man die, having no children, his brother shall marry his wife, and raise up seed unto his brother. Now there were with us seven brethren: and the first, when he had married a wife, deceased, and, having no issue, left his wife unto his brother: Likewise the second also, and the third, unto the seventh. And last of all the woman died also. Therefore in the resurrection whose wife shall she be of the seven? for they all had her. Jesus answered and said unto them, Ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, nor the power of God.
For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven.
 

This reveals the TRUTH of the words ... "Till death do we part"
 
To those who have lost a loved one ... I ask you to ask yourself this simple question ... IF you could hear your loved one, that you lost, speak to you now ... What would they ask you to do? Mourn for the loss of them allowing it to destroy your life or GET UP and CARRY ON?

Now there is another common source of a Broken Heart ...

In many cases, misunderstandings can occur between folks and even Christian friends ... In particular on the computer as it has no heart to express the words that we share.

Many times, when these misunderstandings occur and are not talked out, that a soul can feel hurt and very deeply sometimes.

Many times when we feel this hurt within that no matter what the person, that we feel hurt us, says or does from that point on ... It is seen as being spoken against us, despite what the true intent may have been.

It is as if there is a magnet seeking to pull in ANYTHING negative as to confirm our hurt and righteousness for holding the anger and pain within.

I have seen this often ...

So how do we heal THIS type of broken heart?

SIMPLE ... By talking about it with the one(s) that this soul feels broke their heart as our LORD told us to do.
 

Matthew 18:15
If your brother sins against you, go and talk to him about it alone, and if he will hear you (make peace), you've gained your brother.

But alas ... I see a diff path is chosen by many Christians. One which leads to darkness and despair and the pain within only increases and this is why Jesus shared that we are to go and talk it out with the soul in question.

But, we all know that oft times that seems like a hard path to choose, especially if we have said many things in that darkness, that we were in, to both that soul ... And others. It is as tho we want to save face over being healed.

Let's talk turkey ... It's pretty obvious why we get hurt. We feel we have been wronged by another and if it was in front of others ... Pride kicks in.

So we oft times seek to defend ourselves to those who we feel may have thought this or that over the matter and CHOOSE to carry it on for whatever reasoning we may have had.

We have all experienced this ...

And the WEIRD thing is ... Even if we find out later that we may have misunderstood, we sometimes still murmur reasons to ourselves as to why it was acceptable to have misunderstood assuming this person was trying to disrespect us.

ONE MAJOR PROB with this path ... Our Lord gives us no room to use that as an excuse to stay in the darkness ...
 

1 Peter 2:19-20
For this is thankworthy, if a man for conscience toward God endure grief, suffering wrongfully. For what glory is it, if, when ye be buffeted for your faults, ye shall take it patiently? but if, when ye do well, and suffer for it, ye take it patiently, this is acceptable with God.

We are to accept suffering wrongfully.

Now even tho this was Peter sharing this, He was inspired by the Holy Spirit and sharing the WORD of God ... Which IS Jesus.
 

John 1:1-3
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. The same was in the beginning with God. All things were made by Him; and without Him was not any thing made that was made.
 

John 1:14
And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld His glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and TRUTH.
 

Therefore ... Jesus asks us to forgive, whether we were wrong or right as to not be encaged by the snare of the enemy of our soul.

So we are left with but one TRUTH, which will heal us within when we have chosen the dark path ...

Do what Jesus has asked of us ...

Or admit that we are telling our Lord NO and hold that hurt within.

That soul is no longer in CON-tention with the soul in question but rather the Lord who required us to forgive and carry on even if we were wrongfully and despitefully hurt.

You see my friends ... The hurt will never leave, even if you do. It will only grow within. The magnet will seek another to be seen as hurting you and they probably were not either but that magnet does not care. It will make it appear that way and that is when we begin to build that wall around our heart and become the puppet to that pride, anger and/or pain.

Let go and let God ...

Now what if the broken heart, one has is being blamed on GOD ...

The same rules apply ...

 But to just run around telling everybody else how God or man hurt you will NEVER resolve the issue.

Only place you in more contention with GOD.

Despite the origins of YOUR broken heart ...

TALK TO GOD about it ... He WILL bring peace.
 

Psalms 147:3
He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.
 


Ponder and pray on this ...
 

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