RAPE VICTIMS RECOVERY
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WELCOME BACK FRIEND
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We are friends ...
I
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Let's talk TRUTH ...
RAPE VICTIMS RECOVERY
PROGRAM WITH
RAPE VICTIMS RECOVERY
HEALING AND
RAPE VICTIMS RECOVERY
MESSAGE
So, you believe that
the person who raped you took
your PURITY?
You feel dirty.
You feel the dirt on your soul as if it's on your body?
Remember
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What this person took
from you was only of the flesh and the flesh goes back to
the dust from whenst it came and it is your SOUL that
continues on once we go from this realm to the next.
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Our
BODY
returns to dust:
Genesis 3:19
for dust thou art, and unto dust shalt thou return.
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Our
SPIRIT
returns to God:
Ecclesiastes 12:7
Then shall the dust return to the earth as it was:
and the spirit shall return unto God who gave it.
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When the righteous dies, their
SOUL
goes to
ABRAHAM'S BOSOM
Luke 16:22
And It came to pass that the beggar
died and was carried by the angels into Abraham's Bosom.
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They
did NOT touch your soul.
Your inner most being.
They do NOT hold the key to
your Spiritual prison cell.
YOU DO !!!
YOU allowed yourself
to be encaged in fear cuz of what they did and you alone can choose to be free
and unlock and step out of that Spiritual prison.
Let me assure you, Jesus can make you pure again.
The dirt can be washed away through His power and His blood
which was shed on the Cross.
He can make you whole again. He can replace what was taken
away.
That's why Jesus is here.
That's what He did on the
Cross, for
you.
Listen to the lyrics
of this song.
You can listen to it on the Christian Music Player.
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By Your Side
By
Tenth Avenue North
Why are you striving these days
Why are you trying to earn grace
Why are you crying
Let me lift up your face
Just don't turn away
Why are you looking for love
Why are you still searching as if I'm not enough
To where will you go child
Tell me where will you run
To where will you run
And I'll be by your side
Wherever you fall
In the dead of night
Whenever you call
And please don't fight
These hands that are holding you
My hands are holding you
Look at these hands and my side
They swallowed the grave on that night
When I drank the world's sin
So I could carry you in
And give you life
I want to give you life
Cause I, I love you
I want you to know
That I, I love you
I'll never let you go
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You see child, when
God
took away your sin He removed it as far as the east is from
the west.
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Psalms 103:12
As far as the east is from the west, [so] far hath he
removed our transgressions from us.
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You Are forgiven. Washed clean. Made pure again.
So the only remaining
flaw in the soul ...
Is to forgive the predator and ourselves.
RAPE VICTIMS RECOVERY TOUGHEST TASK IS RAPE VICTIMS
RECOVERY FORGIVENESS
When a tragic event such as rape occurs ...
The confused soul tends to want to put
the blame on someone for their
pain.
We can place the blame on ourselves or pass it off on
others.
Sometimes it is both.
But, we must choose to
forgive all as our Lord asked of us and that includes
ourselves.
The truth is ...
When you forgive
those who have caused you pain, it goes
against what your enemy, the devil, wants. It is the will of
the enemy to hold you captive in the realm of unforgiveness.
Even unforgiveness of
yourself.
Christ died so that you can be forgiven and so the rest
of the world can be forgiven too.
Don't let His death be in
vain. Resist the words that the devil whispers.
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James
4:7
Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he
will flee from you.
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Put on the armor of
GOD !!!
I want to show you
something about the one who offended you that you may not
know yet.
RAPE VICTIMS RECOVERY TRUTH WITH
RAPE VICTIMS RECOVERY WARNING ON
RAPE VICTIMS RECOVERY DECEPTION
It's found here in
this verse.
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Ephesians 6:11-18
Put on the whole armor of God, that ye may be able to stand
against the wiles of the devil.
For we wrestle not against
flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers,
against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against
spiritual wickedness in high places.
Wherefore take unto you
the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in
the evil day, and having done all, to stand. Stand
therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and
having on the breastplate of righteousness; And your feet
shod with the preparation of the Gospel of peace; Above all,
taking the shield of Faith, wherewith ye shall be able to
quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. And take the
helmet of Salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is
the word of God: Praying always with all prayer and
supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all
perseverance and supplication for all saints ...
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You see how your
offender was only a pawn in this spiritual battle.
This person was
overcome by the enemy and made horrible choices which
affected you.
But, it is God's job
to judge.
Not ours.
Vengeance is HIS.
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Romans 12:19
Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather
give place unto wrath: for it is written,
Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. |
Let Go ... And Let God!
Let go of your anger
and lack of forgiveness and Let God deal with them as He
pleases.
This battle is not
between you and him, but rather between God and the devil.
The only way to forgive when someone has harmed you is
through Christ.
Laying down your own
understanding and following HIS way.
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Mark 8:34
And when He had called the people unto him with his
disciples also, he said unto them, Whosoever will come after
me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow
me.
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It is God's will for us
to pray for those who harm us, our enemies.
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Mathew 5:43-48
Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt
love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that
curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them
which despitefully use you, and persecute you; That ye may be the children of your Father which is in
heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the
good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust. For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye?
do not even the publicans the same? And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than
others? do not even the publicans so? Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in
heaven is perfect.
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What is there to gain by holding in anger and
lack of forgiveness?
Not one thing.
RAPE VICTIMS RECOVERY DISCLAIMER WITH
RAPE VICTIMS RECOVERY FACT
Now
this does NOT suggest that you should trust the one(s) who
raped you.
The point is to
forgive you and them.
And carry on with your life and do not put yourself in the
same or similar situations.
On the other hand if you choose to forgive the one who
harmed you, this would have you doing the will
of God ...
AND FREE YOU!
Check this out ...
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2 Corinthians 2:10
If you forgive anyone, I also forgive him. And what I have
forgiven-if there was anything to forgive-I have forgiven in
the sight of Christ for your sake.
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Pray that God will
forgive the one who harmed you. That He will bring you to
the place where you can forgive him also.
Let's take a
lil stroll together.
Down the shore line.
Don't you just love the
feel of the squishy cold sand under your feet. So soothing
to the body and soul. The waves are larger today with white
tops. Must be a storm coming in.
Speaking of storms, let's talk for a moment about the storms
in your mind when the triggers go off.
You know them to well don't ya?
They come out of no where, hitting you like a ton of bricks.
A dozen flashes of the past, within just a few seconds
passing through your mind.
Stopping your every movement.
Even your breathing
changes.
As if it's happening right then and
there all over again.
Your spirit cries, "Make it stop! Make it stop!" but the
pictures continue, tormenting you all over again.
You want to run. You want to hide.
Adrenaline is pumping
through your veins as you seek where do you go to stay safe.
Even though, you are safe. There really is nothing there to
harm you.
Only the visions going through your mind, that
leave you exhausted. Yet at those moments, when the visions
are flashing, no one could convince you that you are safe
and that nothing is going to happen. You won't give over
control. After all that's that was taken. Was control over
your very own body. Feels like there is nothing more that
could be taken.
I have some good news for you.
They didn't take it all.
Remember I shared about how your soul was not touched. The
inner most place that God claims as so very valuable that He
died on the Cross so He could be joined together with that
part of you, in Heaven one day.
Yeah. That's the part he didn't take. The soul is still
there. Unharmed. Untouched.
Just encaged.
Know what triggers you
RAPE VICTIMS RECOVERY METHOD AND
RAPE VICTIMS RECOVERY PROCEDURE FOR
RAPE VICTIMS RECOVERY HOPE
Could be a gun, because he had a
gun. Could be a gravel road, because that's where he took
you. Could be a room in your own home or a home you visit.
Could be many things
... A scene in a movie, a song, a certain drink, a certain
cigarette smoke, a style of car, or a type of furniture ...
The list goes on.
We must gain control
of our reactions to these triggers.
Now ...
I'm not saying that we can ever completely avoid these things.
They seem to pop up unexpectedly,
leaving you trembling and trying to grasp at normalcy so
others don't notice your struggle that is going on within.
I'm saying to know what will cause you to trigger and react.
They can only control you IF you let them.
You DO have the choice to fight and not choose flight.
It isn't easy to stop letting them from negatively affecting your spirit if
you've been allowing them to for a while.
What is the ole cliché?
Old habits are hard to break.
Yet it is possible to take control of what is going on
inside of your own mind.
It takes work. It's a learned process of FAITH in HIM and renewing the mind.
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Romans 12:2
And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed BY
THE RENEWING OF YOUR MIND, that ye may prove what is that
good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
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2 Corinthians 10:5
Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that
exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and BRINGING
INTO CAPTIVITY EVERY THOUGHT to the obedience of Christ ...
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You have to be willing to work at this.
You have to be determined.
Let's stop for a moment and watch these kids making a sand
castle.
See the little boy
getting a bucket of water. He's going to fill up the bucket
for the moat they've made. He's
filled the bucket to full. It's to heavy. He struggles to
lift it. He tried to drag it. He makes it two steps before a
wave pushes him back again. He's frustrated and wants to
give up. Two more steps and a wave knocks him off balance.
He falls backwards back into the water, loosing the bucket.
He searches for his bucket and tries again. He looks like he
has given up and calls for help.
But, the others are too busy
adding their finishing touches to their castle, to hear him. He
wants someone to carry the bucket for him.
Is he going to
give up or keep trying?
He struggles again to lift it. The
bucket slips out of his small hands. He is just to weak to
pick it up. He stops and looks at his friends on the shore
line. He looks at the bucket. You can see determination
growing in him. He tries again. Another wave knocks him
down. This time when he gets up he seems so determined he's
almost angry. He grabs the bucket of water and drags it,
step by step, bracing against the waves. Fighting the entire
way. He won't give up. He's made it to the shore line, where
all his friends come running over to help him.
He made it.
They dump the bucket
into the moat and watch with glee as
the water flows around the mote surrounding their castle.
Their cheers bring a smile to our faces.
MANY ATTEMPTS REPEATED
WILL COMPLETE ANY TASK BEFORE US.
WE CAN MOVE MOUNTAINS
THROUGH FAITH IN HIM THRU US !!!
That determination is what you need.
You are
not going to get over this by hiding within your castle.
You have to choose to fight for what you want.
A mind at peace. It is worth the hard work.
In the end, you'll be glad you did.
Walk with me away from the shore.
Where the sand dunes are.
Standing at the top of the dune we can see the shore line
for miles. What a beautiful view from up here. There's a
gentle breeze, so cooling and refreshing. As if it's
bringing in a change.
Lets walk to the next dune.
I know
it's a difficult climb. The sand is so soft we sink in
making it even more difficult. The tall stiff sand grass has
sharp edges and scratches our legs. With lots of effort
we've made it to the next dune. It feels like we are in a
desert. So silent and still. Completely alone. The first
dune has hidden the lake out of sight. The people, and all
their beach gear. The seagulls don't fly here. There is
nothing here for them. They circle the beach where they can
snatch someone's snack or a fish that has come to close to
the surface. The dunes go on and on, one after another.
As
if there is no end.
Life is a little like these dunes. Up and down. The up hill
climbs are difficult seeming like you might not make it at
times. Small things in life seem to scratch at you like the
tall stiff sand grass. Then things get a bit easier as you
head down hill, and then another trial to climb. Sometimes
you can feel all alone out there as you are going through
life.
Let me assure you dear
one, you were not alone during any of these difficult times
life brought your way.
The past has
warped and used these emotions to control you.
YOU have been
letting them.
It's time to stop and
say NO MORE !!!
It is time to take back control of you
from the enemy of your soul and hand it over to the Lord.
The way you feel.
What you seek.
FREEDOM AND JOY
PERHAPS EVEN LOVE.
God is love.
Have you
found Him. Have you felt him? He lives just beneath the
surface.
Calling you from within.
Longing for you to stop
and take time out of your busy day to seek Him. To reach for
Him. He is there. Waiting. For you to call His name. For you to
come seeking Him.
He has been there all along. Feeling what you
feel. Sensing what you sense. Harboring what is within
these chambers of your soul. He knows you. He has been with you from the beginning.
What ever you/they
told you was wrong.
The names you/they called you were lies.
The world is famous for treating others in
ways they do not deserve.
Just as they did
JESUS.
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Sweetly Broken by
Jeremy Riddle
To the cross I look, to the cross I cling
Of its suffering I do drink
Of its work I do sing
For on it my Savior both bruised and crushed
Showed that God is love
And God is just
Chorus:
At the cross You beckon me
You draw me gently to my knees, and I am
Lost for words, so lost in love,
I'm sweetly broken, wholly surrendered
What a priceless gift, undeserved life
Have I been given
Through Christ crucified
You've called me out of death
You've called me into life
And I was under Your wrath
Now through the cross I'm reconciled
Chorus:
In awe of the cross I must confess
How wondrous Your redeeming love and
How great is Your faithfulness
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Yes
He was broken, bruised and crushed.
Why would He do such a thing for you?
The answer is to show you how very much He loves you.
Yes ... YOU
You are His creation.
You are ... His child.
RAPE VICTIMS RECOVERY PATH TO TRUE
RAPE VICTIMS RECOVERY IS AHEAD
It is time to begin the path of
healing ...
Remember I told you that this was
just the beginning?
Take my hand and follow me to
the healing path ...
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