My Lost Love Study
Getting Over a Lost Love Counseling
Is getting over a lost Love possible?
Getting over a lost love is one of the most difficult things a soul
will encounter in life. People will tell you that they know just how
you feel, but even if they have gone through the same thing, you
sometimes feel that they cannot possibly imagine what you're going
There is not a single thing they can say that can heal your broken heart. You feel like you can't even help yourself. How can anybody else possibly help you? You try and understand why this has happened to you, but understanding seems so far away, that you don't even have the
strength to reach out for it. Some are not even sure that they want to understand.
Those who lose a loved one, oft times feel guilty within, wondering
if maybe there was something more they could have done to prevent the
loss. They regret that they didn't spend more time with their loved
one. The things they wish they had said to them and things they wish
they would have never said to them ... Now they believe that they
will never have the chance to make it right.
The pain is so deep that you almost feel like you've lost your whole
life. There is a giant void within. You are broken, and it hurts. Crying has become part of your routine. You think you'll never be happy again. Sleep is not the same. Life is just not right. Your thought process begins to affect everyone around you. Including
the other loved ones in your life. As time passes ... You have fair days. But, the bad days far
outnumber them. Whether you have lost a loved one to death or divorce, either one can be a traumatic experience. You feel like a part of you is gone. Questions constantly come into your mind ...
Why would God let this happen?
Why did He take them away from you?
What did I do wrong?
And the most popular ... Why me, Lord?
Why did God have to take them now?
If we could just understand why they were taken when they were. Perhaps, we feel like we could accept it better and our delicate
heart could be on the mend. Let's look at some reasons why. It may be that God didn't take your loved one from you, but perhaps He set them free from something that they were suffering or something that would have happened if He didn't.
1 The righteous perisheth, and no man layeth it to heart:
and merciful men are taken away, none considering that the
righteous is taken away from the evil to come.
2 He shall enter into peace: they shall rest in their
beds, each one walking in his uprightness.
Only God knows what the future holds for us. If there was something
that God didn't want your loved one to experience, that may be the
My Lost Love Test
Getting Over a Lost Love is Possible
Another possible reason is ... "The Test and Trial Factor."
Have you ever read the Book of Job?
Job was a righteous man, who loved the Lord. One day when the Angels
were in line, waiting to talk to God, Satan was
with them (because he is an Angel himself).
God said, Have you seen my servant Job? There's nobody like Job on
all the earth. He loves God and turns away from bad. Satan said, of
course he does, because you spoil him, but if you didn't ... He'd
Job's life was about to change ... God allowed everything to be taken from Job, except his wife and his
life. Job lost quite an estate ... And ten children. Job, was
tested beyond imagination, and although he questioned why he suffered
so much loss, he held his Faith. Job proved his love and devotion to the Lord, and in the end, the
Lord rewarded Job with more children and twice the blessings that he
The things that happen to us and to our loved ones sometimes don't
make sense to our human minds, but there are sometimes reasons beyond
our understanding that explain why. We may never know those reasons, at least not while we're on this earth, but we must remain Faithful to God and trust in His will. Although it may not seem so at the time ... God never gives us too much to handle.
1 Corinthians 10:13
There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but
God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye
are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape,
that ye may be able to bear it.
My Lost Love Truth Time
Secret to Getting Over a Lost Love
Most are able to overcome the pain and suffering within, after the
loss of a loved one, with time. Others are encaged in a darkness
within and the words of family and friends, though comforting, just
do not set them free. There comes a time when people come face to
face with the fact that they can't do it alone, and that may even be
why you are here. We reach a point where we feel helpless and that
seeking to overcome the pain within is hopeless.
We don't know where to turn or which way to go. That's when it hits us ... Our only hope is in the Lord. He's the only one we can truly
trust. We need Him. Whether you've lost a spouse, a child, a sibling, a companion, a friend, a relative, or even a pet, you can be happy again. But, where do we start? How can we overcome knowing our loved one is dead? My friend ... There is your first problem. Your loved one is not dead.
... God is not the God of the dead, but of the living.
This means that the souls that pass on from this realm to the next
are not dead, but alive in
Note: You can find out more about Getting Over A Lost Love at the end
of this study.
You may have given up on trying to understand why your loved one has
been taken from you, but understanding what has become of them, may
be how to mend your heart.
I'd like for you to read something that may bring you closer to the
understanding that can heal your fragile heart concerning those that
pass from this realm to the next.
1 Thessalonians 4:13-18
13 But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren,
concerning them which are asleep, [passed on from this realm to the
next] that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope.
14 For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even
so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him.
15 For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that
we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not
prevent them which are asleep.
16 For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a
shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God:
and the dead in Christ shall rise first:
17 Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up
together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and
so shall we ever be with the Lord.
18 Wherefore comfort one another with these words.
My Lost Love is Still Alive
Getting Over a Lost Love Mystery
We are taught not to be sorrowful as tho there is no hope. They are not dead and gone. You will see and be with them again. Understanding, believing, and trusting that your loved one is truly in
a better place now is vital to your soul. The reward that we hope
for as Christians, the reward we long for and await every day of our
lives is the life that your loved one is experiencing now.
To grieve for them, is to grieve for their receiving of the reward. The promise, that we all live and strive for. People always try and console others who lose a loved one by saying "They're in a better place now." ... Nothing could be closer to the Truth. Now, most of you are feeling a little better right about now, while others are unable to hear these shared words because the pain is too unbearable.
So, I have a question for you now ... If you could hear your loved one right now, what would they say to you? Would they want you to be mourning and hurting? Grieving their absence and slowly dying within? Sitting around in misery? Would this please the one you long for?
Would they say, I love you so much. Please don't cry anymore. I am at peace and sooooooo happy. I have no more pain and no more tears. Rejoice for me and soon we will be together. Healing a broken heart takes a long, long time without understanding. The more you understand, the faster you will heal.
My Lost Love is in Paradise
Getting Over a Lost Love With Faith
When the loss of a loved one overshadows our minds and hearts, the
words of family and friends, though comforting ... Oft times do not seem
to have the ability to set one truly free from the overwhelming
sorrow within. The absence of said Spiritual freedom within, can negatively affect
So, what does truly set us free? It is written that Truth will set you free and here is Truth ... Even IF it is time for a loved one to sojourn from this realm to the next for whatever reason that our Heavenly Father deems is worthy, our loved one would not be dead. But, rather ... Alive in Paradise awaiting a glorious day when they rise from Paradise and meet Jesus and the Raptured in the air to live
with Jesus in Heaven forever.
So, our loved one will be or is in a place that we all long to be and this Truth should bring forth peace within our mind and heart for them. This leaves us with one other issue. Our own pain over the loss. We all know that when we lose this earthly tabernacle (body) that we
are no longer bound by it's worldly point of view and will see things from God's view point and this being Truth reveals that our loved ones seeing this Truth would be cheering us on and want us to carry on until the day you see them again.
So, in what some may deem as a worst case scenario, (which those who know truth would deem as something to rejoice and
praise the Lord for) We are taught to hold on to the Faith and carry on;
2 By whom also we have access by faith into this grace
wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God.
3 And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also:
knowing that tribulation worketh patience;
4 And patience, experience; and experience, hope:
Many others may come to depend upon our Faith. How do we comfort ourselves, friends, family and those we encounter who are negatively affected by the passing on of a loved one? As it is written ... Comfort 'em with the Truth:
1 Thessalonians 4:18
Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord. Wherefore comfort one another with these words.
We will see 'em again. Keep on keeping on.
Even with the understanding of why God has chosen this time to bring your loved one on their way home, there still remains a part of you that is missing. So, how do you fill your empty heart and your empty home, now that your loved one is gone? Fill them with God! Bring Him into your life like never before! Get to know Him better. You keep asking yourself, What am I going to do? Find out what it is that He wants you to do. Ask Him to show you something that you can do for Him ... Something far outside of your comfort zone that will make you feel complete again. Not something simple, but something you can lose yourself in.
Did you get that?
Lose yourself to find Him!
Maybe you could write a book about your experience to help others who are going through the same thing, and maybe you'll even save others from the same heartache before it happens to them. Maybe you could fellowship with others who are suffering such a loss and need a hand of friendship, an ear or shoulder.
Why Take My Lost Love Summary
Getting Over a Lost Love Path to Healing
Every day, God has a plan for us ... He wants us to serve, share words of comfort, acts of kindness to
perform. There are places He wants us to be just when someone needs
You can go through life seeing everything as routine ... Just another
You can keep your eyes open to the opportunities that God sets up for
you. Then, you can see God working through you, making your life truly
Live and let love. ... Love and let live.
My prayer is for the true peace which passes all understanding be obtained and maintained within the hearts of those who know and love,
the lost loved one ... Despite what God has planned for His child. May God's will be done.
There is a Healing path that you can use to help you turn your mourning into rejoicing. It will help you to discover God's plan for
you, fill in the void, and continue your life in happiness. Your loved one would want that for you too and deep down ... You know
this. It is a Healing path for souls with problems of all kinds, and you
will discover the Path to healing.
Getting over a lost love is so very difficult, however getting over a
lost love is much easier knowing the Truth. Pass it on.