INCEST VICTIMS PROGRAM
VICTIMS OF INCEST COUNSELING
Welcome to our Christianity Oasis Quest For Blest Rest From Incest study program. This is our Incest Victims program with 100% Free Counseling For Victims of Incest to truly enhance and enLIGHTen your be-YOU-tiful and YOU-nique life.
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QUEST FOR BLEST REST FROM INCEST
CHRISTIANITY OASIS
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OUR JOURNEY BEGINS
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DESTINATION
STATE OF FREEDOM |
INCEST VICTIMS HEALING PATH
VICTIMS OF INCEST FRIEND
WELCOME
I am so pleased that you have finally come to talk with me.
You may not know me, but I have known you all of our lives.
If you choose to come with me for a bit, you will discover who I
am.
I would like for US to take a little journey together.
A
HEALING JOURNEY
This journey is for the child that hated bedtime, hoping nothing happens.
This journey is for the hurting child, who is now an adult and wants to overcome.
This journey is for the parent who knows what's happening, yet remains silent.
This journey is for the friend who knows and wants to help, but doesn't know how.
This journey is for the child within, screaming out these two simple words:
NO MORE !!!
It is time to silence the Incest Victims screams within.
IT IS TIME TO PLAN OUR ...
QUEST FOR BLEST REST FROM INCEST HEALING JOURNEY
Would you like to get away for a little while?
Let's you and I go on a road trip, shall we?
Our Incest Victims healing journey will last for 14 days. Each day there will be new
and thought provoking stops to make.
TOGETHER, we will stop and visit YOU-nique places,
pull over for scenic views, work our way around road blocks, detours and obstacles
that we may encounter along the way and the best part of all,
which is rolling down our windows while we listen to our
music and just breathe.
Let's leave our worries, pain and anguish behind as we
take a trip to a new place.
We will be heading out of the State
of Confusion …
Out of the State of hopelessness ... Out of the State of
emptiness, loneliness and misery
on a ONE WAY trip to the State of Freedom.Blazing our
own trail as we need to and building bridges over the
troubled waters which have kept us from reaching
our secret dream of having joy and peace within.
Our destination, throughout our drive, will be to cross that state line of
Freedom.
What an adventure this will be !!!
Before we set forth on our Spiritual Road Trip, let's talk a little about ...
HOPE
It all starts right there.
Yeah right, huh?
Hope
...
Who has that anymore?
Well, deep within ... We DO.
I mean, think about it ...
Don't we hope that one day we will be free from
the Spiritual prison that we have created to protect
ourselves?
Don't we hope that one day we can actually look forward to
tomorrow?
Don't we hope that there may be someone who truly
cares for us enough to understand?
Don't we hope that there will one day be an end
to this confusion?
Don't we hope that we can ENJOY being alive?
Don't we hope that one day we can move on?
Don't we hope for peace, joy and freedom?
But, it's hard to believe that this hope will ever bring
forth real and lasting change in our lives, while we exist in our present State of mind and heart
isn't it?
We find our self in this dark tunnel with no light at the
end.
We're not even sure which way we are headed most of the
time, if we are heading in any direction
at all.
WE NEED TO AWAKEN
A
soul that is locked away.
We feel that we are in a cage.
All we are is a mask
that we emit for others to see.
Knowing our walls are up and
no one is coming in.
Everywhere
we look is fear and darkness.
No hope, no joy and no love.
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But, how can we awaken from such darkness?
Part of
us doesn't know if we even WANT to come out. We
have been here so long ... It's become FAMILIAR.
Almost
as if we feel safe hiding deep within our minds.
But
then comes TRUTH !!!
INCEST VICTIMS JOURNEY
VICTIMS OF INCEST PATH TO FREEDOM
Regardless of if we feel safe or not in our
darkness, we know we are not happy. The
APPEARANCE of being tough on
the outside maybe, but not happy. People look
at us different now with our walls up. They
only see what we allow them to see. But inside ...
We feel like we are dying. The anger, the
sadness, the loneliness, the fear ... Whatever our
darkness is ... It's overpowering.
It feels like ... A curse.
Yeah, a curse ... But what or who is the SOURCE of the
curse?
The
Curse
We heard the tale since we were young,
Heard the songs that have been sung,
About an evil spell.
Someone beautiful is cursed
We feel sad through every verse
Til a kiss and all is well
The message that no one can teach
Is clearer to someone like me
There is no curse or evil spell
That's worse than one we give ourselves
There is no sorcerer as cruel,
As the proud and angry fool.
And yet, we cry life isn't fair
Beneath our cries the truth is there
A power that will break the spell
We should know very well
Is locked within ourselves
Yet we'd rather blame,
And curse our faith and change
We run from everyone to hide from the pain
And all the shame
The story long we knew it well
About a wretched evil spell
A power that will break this curse
Oh I know all too well
Is locked within myself
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So, it seems that maybe, JUST MAYBE ... We are the
source of the curse and IF it was us that cast this
curse ...
We CAN break this self
induced curse and establish this HOPE.
Oh wow, that is a
GREAT song on the radio.
Let's listen to
the words.
I know someone by Ginny Owens
You have built yourself a fine fortress
And you're the only one who holds the key
You've resolved to pilot your own ship
And you decide what all the rules will be
No more asking for answers
No more cries for help
You've been hurt for the last time
That's what you tell yourself
CHORUS:
I don't know much more than this
But I know someone who does
I was not there in your past
But I know someone who was
I can't heal what lies within
But I know someone who can
I know someone who can
It's a drag living life like this
Believe me, I've been there a thousand times
Spending everyday on the defense
And building walls no one could ever climb
Till somebody showed me my fortress was a cage
And granted me my freedom
Since then I haven't been the same
CHORUS
So you can lock me out
Of your life as you've designed it
But I know there's peace and
I'll be on my knees until the day you find it
Yeahhh ... oooh
I can't fully understand
Oh no
CHORUS
I know someone, I know someone
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You know
the one thing that makes darkness leave?
Light ...
In that light,
will be a new life of freedom, joy, and peace.
Whether you see the light at the end of
the tunnel or not ... It IS there.
And we will get there together.
BUT HOW?
I mean, we DO want to
overcome this darkness within ...
We're tired of nobody understanding us.
We're tired of being bombarded with horrible thoughts.
We're tired of being so confused.
We're sick of being numb.
We're done with being scared.
We're tired of feeling locked away.
We're tired of hiding behind our mask.
Somewhere deep within you can sense something or someone screaming to come out. To be set free.
INCEST VICTIMS HEALING CURE
VICTIMS OF INCEST HOPE
All we need to
begin our journey is hope and it IS there. Something within that holds HOPE of being able to feel joy, happiness, peace, security, and comfort.
We just want to be told
and believe that:
"Everything is going to be alright."
Hey ... Guess what?
Everything IS going to be alright.
Find that tiny bit
of hope within, that hopes that there IS a way out.
HOPE IS WHAT WE
NEED
It is the anchor
of our soul.
Hebrews 6:19
Which HOPE we have as an anchor of the
soul ...
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Hard to believe in hope in that which we can't see or imagine
though, huh?
Romans 8:24-25
For we are saved by hope:
but hope that is seen is not hope:
for what a man seeth, why doth he yet hope
for? But
if we hope for that we see not, then do we
with patience wait for it.
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Well, guess what ... That's just the way it works.
Hebrews 6:19
Now faith is the substance of things
HOPED for,
the evidence of things not seen.
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We must
choose to HOPE in the unseen future of peace, joy and
Freedom that is ahead.
WE MUST HAVE FAITH
!!!
We are told
that we can hope for
ANYTHING we want.
And with just that
itsy bitsy shred of Faith ... We are promised that we CAN get
what we hope for ...
IF we believe.
Matthew 17:20
And Jesus said unto them ... If ye
have faith as a grain of mustard seed, ye
shall say unto this mountain, Remove hence
to yonder place; and it shall remove; and
NOTHING SHALL BE IMPOSSIBLE UNTO YOU.
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What a wonderful
promise.
But is it REAL?
Hmmmmmmmmm
Well let's look at
it this way ...
What
have we got to lose by hoping in this journey that we are
about to embark upon, besides
the negative thoughts and emotions that we harbor?
Take my hand and let's go see what we
will discover TOGETHER.
BORROW MINE
Take my hand and walk with me a while
Cause it seems your smile has left you
And don't give in, when you fall apart
And your broken heart has failed you
I'll set a light up
On a hilltop
To show you my love
For this world to see
You can borrow mine
When your hope is gone
Borrow mine
When you can't go on
'Cause the world will not defeat you
When we're side by side
When your faith is hard to find
You can borrow mine
Take my love when all that you can see
Is the raging sea all around us
And don't give up 'cause I'm not letting go
And the God we know will not fail us
We'll lay it all down
As we call out
Sweet Savior
help our unbelief
You can borrow mine
When your hope is gone
Borrow mine
When you can't go on
'Cause the world will not defeat you
When we're side by side
When your faith is hard to find
You can borrow mine
When you are weak
Unable to speak
You are not alone
The God who has saved us
Will never forsake us
He's coming to take us
Take us to our home
You can borrow mine
When your hope is gone
Borrow mine
When you can't go on
'Cause the world will not defeat you
When we're side by side
When your faith is hard to find
When your faith is hard to find
You can borrow mine
Take my hand
Take my love
Don't give in
Don't give up
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You are not going to be fighting this battle alone
anymore.
You will NOT be on this drive alone.
Remember that.
You CAN hope.
INCEST VICTIMS HEALING STEPS
VICTIMS OF INCEST WILL OVERCOME
After each day
we will pull over and rest.
Too much driving at one
time, will make us more liable to become overwhelmed and
possibly fall asleep at
the wheel, and we can't have that happen.
By taking in too much at one time, we will be losing other
valuable information that didn't have time to set in
yet. It's like taking medication. The prescribed
medication is what is needed. Taking it as it is
prescribed is the only way for it to work. Taking too
much at a time can cause additional harm. Stopping the medication too early
(even though you feel better for a day) causes the illness and symptoms to
return.
So ... Please make sure you CHOOSE to take this journey ONE day at a time for all 14
days.
You will be so glad you did by the end of our road trip
to the State of Freedom.
Let's choose to create a personal "road trip" journal
that only we can read and write in it each day.
In it, we can jot down our thoughts about the
experiences of that day and/or what we want to focus on,
such as any road signs, songs, stories, etc; that we
discovered along the way, which touched us or that we
may want to remember.
Each day, we will encounter and experience new
opportunities of Hope and Truth. This journaling will
help us remember the best parts of our trip and what we
really want to remember for later and ask our self ...
How can we apply what we have learned that day to OUR
life right now.
You can create one at home and/or if you choose to, you
can become a C-O-O-L Member and use the ...
CHRISTIAN COUNSEL BLOG FORUM as to share your mind and
heart as others are.
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If you chose to use an online journal and post in the
C-O-O-L Confidential Christian Counseling (CCCC) Forum,
I still encourage you to keep a private journal at home
for those thoughts or feelings that you are not able to
share with others but need to share with yourself and
get it out of you so you can heal.
We
will get some rest and ponder on what we have learned
about HOPE and begin our life changing road trip
tomorrow.
We are here for each other.
We're a team.
And ALWAYS have
been.
DO YOU KNOW WHO I
AM YET?
YOU WILL BY THE END OF THE JOURNEY.
Meet me here tomorrow and click on Day 1 of the Incest
Victims Healing path below to
begin our Incest Victims Healing road trip.
Please
choose to be patient each day and take only one
Incest Victims Healing step at a
time for the Incest Victims healing journey to work properly.
Make sure you *bookmark* this page as to continue our trip from day to day!
I will leave you with something to read which will help
you build your HOPE as to be ready for this excellent
adventure we are about to take.
Click on the link below:
INCEST VICTIMS
HEALING IS POSSIBLE FOR THE VICTIMS OF INCEST WHO CHOOSE TO HOPE
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If you're
under the care of a doctor, or if you're taking prescription
medication for any reason, DO NOT discontinue it unless you have
orders from your doctor.
Jesus made this statement:
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Luke 5:31
They that are whole need not a physician; but they that are sick. |
This Scripture clearly suggests that even though Jesus
was using an analogy of a human physician to reveal that
He is the healer of the soul ... Jesus acknowledged that
there were human physicians needed for the body at times
when our body is sick. God works thru the hands of many
physicians. Just as God's Spirit will work thru this
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