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Entering the State of Freedom

We have passed the State Line of Freedom!

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Great to see you again! I waited so long to be able to say these words ...

Welcome Home!

by Natalie Grant

You keep watching the rain come down (yeah)
Pretty princess, broken crown (yeah)
And your dreams have all burned out
But don't you know that they brought you
Here somehow, all you need to know is ...
You're home, where secrets are told
See a new world unfolding
Where hearts are one, the pain's undone
And you're finally belonging, yeah
And you need to know, you need to know
You're home, yeah
You need to know, you need to know
You're home
So take your coat off and stay awhile (yeah)
What made you cry can make you smile again
You can hold your head up high
'Cause don't you know that you
Oh, girl you were born to fly
When you realize ...
You're home, where secrets are told
See a new world unfolding
Where hearts are one, the pain's undone
And your finally belonging, yeah
And you need to know, you need to know
You're home, yeah
You need to know
All you really need to know is you're home
Welcome home
Everything's gonna be alright
'Cause you're home
Feel the sun, your day has come
You're not alone
You're home

Do you know who I am yet?

I will give you some clues. I was with you when ...

  • ... we were enduring the horrible events.
  • ... we cried ourselves to sleep.
  • ... we questioned if it was normal or acceptable.
  • ... we found out it was not.
  • ... we wondered if anyone could see our shame.
  • ... we built walls to assure they never did.
  • ... we blamed ourselves.
  • ... we questioned and even blamed God.
  • ... we would constantly ponder on what happened.
  • ... we began our emotional roller coaster.
  • ... we created our own adult escapes.
  • ... we went on our doctor's visits.
  • ... we were diagnosed as having this and that.
  • ... we became what we were diagnosed to be.
  • ... we began to hate the world and life itself.

I was also with you when ...

  • ... we learned that God did not want this to happen, but man has free will.
  • ... we learned that we should trust our natural instincts that God places inside of us.
  • ... we learned what Love is really about
  • ... unselfish and unconditional.
  • ... we found a new escape and hiding place. Instead of running to our addictions, we decided to hide in Jesus.
  • ... we learned it's okay to be emotional, as long as we have a leash on our emotions and stay in control on them.
  • ... we learned that we must replace each lie with Truth.
  • ... when we learned that the only label is that we are God's child. God's property.
  • ... we took off the rear view and side view mirrors of our past so we couldn't look back anymore.
  • ... we learned that God really does love us and carries us through our hardest times. He will and did turn our pain into beauty.
  • ... we learned how to say "Enough is enough."
  • ... we experienced a new beginning together.
  • ... we started to change the garments around our soul.
  • ... we were reborn.
  • ... we built our shrine for God.
  • ... we learned how to renew our mind.
  • ... we learned how far just having a little hope and faith can get us.
  • ... we started changing our old ways. We learned that sometimes intense healing (like what we needed) requires us to let go of a lot and even close out the world so we can start new.
  • ... we learned that our trials and tribulations are really what strengthen us. And that sometimes it's all in our perspective
  • ... Our state of mind.
  • ... we discovered that real Peace and rest for our souls comes through Jesus.
  • ... we learned the only way to feel Peace is by waiting out the storm, being still, and believing God is taking care of us.
  • ... we found out that everything is going to be alright.
  • ... we found out we have a guardian angel assigned specifically to us to watch over us.
  • ... we learned together that it is our turn to help out someone else who has been silenced like we once were.
  • ... we found Freedom from our past.

Who am I?

I am your inner child!

Each human has an inner child stirring around within the Spiritual realm of their mind and heart.

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You know that secret place within us that we used to go all the time as a child and now sneak peeks from time to time. The secret place that we run to when we are hurt or wounded deeply. The most Holy of Holies within you.

It is God's Sanctuary within you. The Spirit of God lives inside you with me.

1 Corinthians 3:16

Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?

1 Corinthians 6:19

What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?

So, the inner child (me) is hidden in the Spiritual Kingdom of God within you.

Luke 17:20-21

20 And when He was demanded of the Pharisees, when the Kingdom of God should come, He answered them and said, The Kingdom of God cometh not with observation:
21 Neither shall they say, Lo here! or, lo there! for, behold, the Kingdom of God is within you.

Therefore, I have access to talk with the Holy Spirit and He ... With me and our spirit.

Romans 8:16

The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God:

The Holy Spirit talks to me.

When I long for help, the Holy Spirit hears and feels me and tells God what I feel.

Romans 8:26-27

26 Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.
27 And He that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because He maketh intercession for the Saints according to the Will of God.

The Holy Spirit strengthens me when I need it.

Ephesians 3:14-16

14 For this cause I bow my knees unto the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ,
15 Of whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named,
16 That he would grant you, according to the riches of his glory, to be strengthened with might by his Spirit in the inner man;

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God uses each human's spirit like a candle to see what is on our mind and heart.

Proverbs 20:27

The spirit of man is the candle of the LORD, searching all the inward parts of the belly.

Do not quench the spirit within you ... Or His.

1 Thessalonians 5:19

Quench not the Spirit.

Yes, we have been together from the very beginning. To better understand how this all works, read this article I brought along for us:

I am your inner child ... I am your spirit!

I obey what you tell me to do and I react to your thoughts, but I do not have to like it. I need you to choose to change your thoughts and your choices. I know you want to be free. So do I. And we have chosen to change our lives haven't we?

Check out this poem that shows us just how far we have come together.

The Mirror - - Looking At My Inner Child

I listen to my Soul whisper,
"Go more deeply still."
Breathless, with eyes wide open
I leap into the abyss of my hidden childhood feelings:
Resentment, jealousy, rage.
I was the "good little girl,"
It wasn't safe to make waves.
As I free fall with reckless abandon,
Memories from my childhood fade in, fade out.
My first impulse is to flee from my past.
Dare I enter Pandora's box,
Exposing myself to the pain I so masterfully concealed?
My Soul beckons me to face my inner demons.
Denial only seems to perpetuate my suffering.
Now I proceed slowly as if walking behind
death's shadow.
The blackened void consumes my every step.
I am alone, separate, terrified, without hope.
Has my Soul tricked me?
Is life simply about living my death?
I must continue on this journey toward
I must seek out the Truth of my Being.
I must follow my passion to know God.
What else can lead me to the peace for which I so yearn?
I gradually
surrender to my inner demons.
The presence of peace enfolds me.
As if suspended in a cocoon of Grace,
I melt into the sweet ease of the eternal now.
My Soul then presents me with a gift, a mirror.
Gazing into the looking glass,
I am face to face with my frightened inner child.
She sits in a corner, speechless, paralyzed with despair.
Gently my Soul encourages me to be with her.
Tenderly my Soul speaks within the stillness of my
"Ask of your fear-stricken child:
What have you to teach me?
How can I make you my friend?
How can I free myself from this suffocating pain?"
Sensing my sincerity, my inner child relaxes and replies:
"I can teach you how to
Love me if you will listen.
Listen to your Heart, speak from your Heart, trust your Heart.
The Heart is where we feel and hear God's Love.
I will always be your friend if you just love and honor me.
Promise to never leave me again.
We can face our inner demons together,
Finding our way back home to Love."
My Soul lovingly continues:
"Embrace her and the
feelings of jealousy, rage, and resentment.
Ask her why you have these feelings?
How did you get them and from where did they come?
How can you accept and give gratitude for them?"
With a trusting Heart my inner child proceeds:
"You were not allowed to express sadness or anger as a child.
You had to hide these feelings to
protect yourself.
Your mom and dad didn't always listen to you.
They couldn't honor your feelings and comfort you.
They had the same problem with their parents.
No one really knew how to listen or care for them."
"Together we have the courage to feel our feelings.
We can let them go and forgive our parents and ourselves.
We can bless these feelings.
They will teach us how to
Love again.
They have brought us back together and opened our Heart.
I am free to be a true child of joy with you."
Tears of joy overflow,
As I fully embrace my inner child.
Her gift of inner
peace has Awakened my sleeping Heart.
Filled with a sense of compassion and Love,
My transformation begins.
I will listen to my Heart, my Soul, my inner child.
I am at peace.
Then my Soul whispers:
"Listen with a loving and compassionate Heart.
All the answers lie within you,
Facing your fears and unresolved feelings will set you free.
These are the doorways to your Enlightenment."
"You are Unconditional Love.
This is the Truth of your Being.
There is nowhere to go and nothing to do.
It is already accomplished."
"You are the Creator of your life.
Beloved, you are peace!"

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After what had happened to us ... Just like when a small animal gets scared and runs off and hides, I did too.

When you chose to continually ponder on the negative thoughts of the past ... I created this spiritual prison just like you wanted me to. A spiritual castle to hide away in. I built the walls real high, pulled up the drawbridge, dug a moat and filled it with things that man dares not look upon, much less touch.

I put the window at the highest point of the spiritual castle tower, so that we could give audience to those who we encountered and still feel safe within our high tower and behind our masked walls.

I had been encaged for so very long. I couldn't get out when I wanted to, because you became so comfortable in misery that it became a habit. I kept pleading for you to talk to me about this, but you kept ignoring me. I kept trying to make you uncomfortable when I hated what we were doing, but you kept choosing to dwell in darkness by thinking those same ole negative thoughts.

I didn't want to stay there for as long as I did. I kept screaming and trying to tell you that I wanted to come out. It felt like I was in a glass cage. I could sense every foul thought you entertained, I could see everything you were doing and the poor choices you were making because we were hurt so much in the past.

But, you couldn't hear or feel me. Until now.

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You Can Be Set Free

I am the inner child that was locked away long ago. The child that ran free until you became hurt and afraid. Everything that you have chosen is what we have become. I am not saying that the abuse is your fault, I am saying that a wrong path was chosen after the abuse. I know it was natural, but now we know there is another way. A path to healing. We need to change our thoughts as to be healed and to be set free. It is time to get rid of the baggage. It is time to get rid of the old self.

So Long Self
by Mercy Me

Well if I come across a little bit distant
It's just because I am
Things just seem to feel a little bit different
You understand

Believe it or not but life is not apparently
About me anyways
But I have met the One who really is worthy
So let me say

So long self
Well it's been fun, but I have found somebody else
So long self
There's just no room for two
So you are gonna have to move
So long self
Don't take this wrong but you are wrong for me farewell
Oh well, Goodbye, don't cry
So Long Self

Stop right there because I know what your thinking
But no we can't be friends
And even though I know your heart is breaking
This has to end

And come to think of it the blame for all of this
Simply falls on me
For wanting something more in life than all of this
Oh, can't you see


Farewell, Goodbye
Oh so long self

You finally started communicating with me again 14 days ago. And I am slowly starting to talk with you again like we did when we were a child. And the tower doors have been unlocked and it is all slowly crumbling to the ground.

So We Can Be Free

Hold out your hand my inner child,
and I will offer mine,
Be brave , be brave sweet little girl,
so our fingers intertwine.
Your hand it is so small in mine,
so soft, so gentle, so perfectly formed.
fingers bare,
and unadorned.
How I wish I could hold you,
To take you in a tight embrace,
look into your eyes and accept you,
when we are face to face.
Little girl, I want to know you,
to take away your pain,
I know how hard I seek,
to make you whole again.
Please know I haven't left you,
I know your always there,
your little voice, please be known,
for you my child I care.
I will find a way to reach you,
knock down the walls of doubt,
the bricks so solidly cemented,
till you can come on out.
For now my little inner child,
I will hold your hand,
And for you to know sweet baby girl,
I'm trying to understand.
Hold on tight, Oh so tight,
my grasp on you is strong,
I will not let you go again,
together we belong.

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This road trip has come to an end.

We are now in the State of Freedom!

But, we have only just begun. You think I'm leaving now? Ha. Not a chance. I cannot, remember? We are together until the end. We are a lot closer now than when we started 14 days ago ... So you better get used to me. I'm not going anywhere.

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