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We will be answering many questions that you may have throughout this program, so do not get discouraged if your specific situation is not addressed early on. Some of the information contained within this program may not apply to you, but may apply to a family member, friend or someone that you may encounter which you could choose to use as to help another soul.

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Are you looking to ...

Get married and want to learn how to have a righteous marriage, understand and heal from the failures of a past marriage, heal your existing marriage or just enhance your marriage which is going well?

If so ... You have been led by our Lord to the right place.

Perhaps one of the questions and/or statements below, is something that is on your mind and heart ...


 

SINGLE NEVER MARRIED

I am single and want the picture perfect marriage God intended me to have.
Iím scared of intimacy and Iím afraid my partner wonít understand.
My parents got divorced and Iím so scared it will happen to my marriage.
No one likes who I want to marry. Is that a sign I shouldnít get married to them?
What can I do to prepare for my love when they come?
Why am I not married yet? Isnít everyone supposed to get married?
Iím a Christian and Iím dating a non-Christian. Can I still get married to them?

DIVORCED

I have been married before and divorced, can I remarry?
I had bad experiences in my other marriage(s), how do I restore trust in love?
What if my first spouse died? Am I allowed to remarry?
What if I pushed away the one I was supposed to be with and regret it now?

MARRIED BUT UNHAPPY

What if my husband or wife is unsaved?  
I am married and want to restore the first love with my spouse that I once had.
My past is negatively affecting my marriage.
 My spouse and I do nothing but argue with each other.
My spouse spends more time at work and with friends than with me.
Since we have had kids, my spouse and I donít have any time for each other.
I think that I married too soon, now Iím having second thoughts.
I think my spouse is cheating on me or know that he/she has.
I believe that I have fallen out of love.
I want to fix my marriage.
What went wrong? What did I do? How do I fix this?
My spouse abuses me. Does God want me to stay married?
I am considering divorce.

HAPPILY MARRIED BUT WANT TO ENHANCE MY MARRIAGE

Many friends are divorcing and I want Biblical tips on keeping my marriage.
How can I make sure God is in control of my marriage?
How can my spouse and I grow as Christians together through our marriage?

 

Perhaps these examples do not specifically relate to your situation, but we will be addressing many others.

Letís go for a walk and talk for a bit.

If you are considering marriage or are having problems in your marriage ...
 
I would like for you to ponder on WHY you are considering marriage or WHY you did get married.

Do/Did you want to?
Are/Were you forced to?
Is/Was pregnancy the reason?
Is/Was the choice you made out of obligation?
Is/Was the choice you made out of convenience?
Are/Were you looking for a way to escape something else?

And the ESSENTIAL question ...

Are/Were you IN LOVE?

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Letís ponder on the ORIGINS of the marriage that we want/have/had.

Iíll give you a few different scenarios ...

Though your story may not match perfectly ... again these are merely examples.
 


 

SINGLE NEVER MARRIED

 There is a young couple that went too far, too fast. The girl ends up pregnant and they decide to marry so everyone around them wouldnít judge them. Now, they are struggling to keep their marriage together and truly do not love one another.
 
Everyone in my family has been divorced. Part of me wants to fall in love and get married, but a part of me believes that Iím going to get a divorce like everyone else.

My past has made me afraid to be intimate. I started dating thinking everything was okay. But, when they wanted to be intimate, I got scared. They are never going to want to marry me now.

I want to get married, but everyone decent seems to be already taken.

I donít want to be alone all my life. I feel that time is running out to find someone.

I see everyone fall in love. It seems so awesome. I want to be prepared and ready when they show up.

Iím losing hope that Iíll ever be married.

DIVORCED

 I was married thinking I was in love. But, guess what ... I wasnít.

I was married and now Iíve found my soul mate and donít want to mess it up this time.
 
My spouse was married before and has children from the last marriage. I have never had children and feel like the marriage is falling apart because I donít know how to be a parent and even a spouse.
 
I miss being married, but my last spouse broke up with me. I donít think Iíll ever be able to love againÖ but I wish I could.

I want to get married again, but my Church looks down on that.

MARRIED BUT UNHAPPY

My spouse and I just donít talk anymore. We donít seem to have anything in common like we used to.

There is a married couple. They argue every night. One is either never ďin the moodĒ  and/or the other is always tired from work.

Finances have been an issue for years now.

They canít seem to make each other happy anymore. Romance has been missing. They both just miss each other. Both wish and pray in the back of their minds that they could go back to when they first were married and desperately in love.

There is another married couple. The husband beats the wife every night. The wife wants out but feels she is breaking Godís law by leaving.

The husband spends all his time work. The wife suspects an affair. Communication was out of the picture years ago. She just wants the love of her husband back.
 

The in laws/parents have moved in. Time alone isnít even an option anymore. Everyone seems on edge and the marriage just fell apart.

A husband so desperately wants to be intimate with his wife. But she keeps avoiding him whenever he tried to get close. 

He or she canít get their sexual desires satisfied, so they have gone elsewhere.

It always feels like Iím debating for time from my spouse from my own children. I understand they are important, but I miss the time we used to have BEFORE we had children.

My spouse says they have fallen out of love with me. They donít want to be married anymore, but I donít want to let them go.

HAPPILY MARRIED BUT WANT TO ENHANCE MY MARRIAGE

 Iím a newly wed and madly in love with my spouse, but Iíve heard itís the hardest time in the first couple of years of marriage. I want to be prepared to get through it with them. How can I be prepared so we can be strong together?
 
I love my spouse, but I want grow together more as Christians with them. I heard if God is in control of our relationship, it will really last and we will be happier.
 
My spouse and I are happy, but I want to make sure we are on the right track. I donít want to lose this happiness.

 

When things go wrong in a relationship or marriage, we begin to question if we have made a mistake or if we are to try and find the source of the problem and make it right.

Before we can determine the source of any concerns that we may have in our marriage or seek the source of the problems that may/are/did occur ...

We MUST answer one simple question ...

DOES THE MARRIAGE HAVE A FOUNDATION OF LOVE?

DOES/DID GOD BLESS THE MARRIAGE?

Let me ask you somethingÖ

What makes a marriage ... A ďmarriageĒ

Is it that little slip of paper, called a marriage license, that we must pay for as to be deemed as being married by mankind?

Do you really believe that?

That a piece of paper makes you married in GOD'S EYES?

What if that tiny piece of paper that says you are married got burned in a fire? Does that make the marriage null and void?

Or maybe it is the wedding ring?

I mean after all ... It IS made of GOLD and maybe even diamonds which mankind has been taught to hold most near and dear.

If it gets lost or stolen is the marriage over?

What if you were on a cruise with someone that you loved and were to marry and the ship sunk and you and a hundred other passengers jumped in lifeboats and drifted to an island and were stranded on the island for many years and you and your loved one lived as though you were married and later died on that Island never having a marriage license or wedding ring.

Did God honor the LOVE?

Did God deem it as marriage?

Or did He deem it as living in sin?

THE QUESTION BECOMES ... IS GOD BOUND BY MAN'S CHOICES AND MAN'S RULES REGARDING MARRIAGE SO THAT HE MUST BLESS ALL MARRIAGES BECAUSE TWO SOULS WERE ISSUED A MARRIAGE LICENSE BY MAN AND NOT BE ABLE TO BLESS THOSE THAT DID NOT ABIDE BY MAN'S RULES?

GOD FORBID !!!

Are ALL marriages today the result of God's will ... Or the will of those who chose to marry?

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Here are a few scenarios that I would like for you to consider.
 

Do you think God blessed the marriage where one spouse gets abused and married out of fear ?

What about the young couple who went a little too far one night and the girl got pregnant. They didnít really know each other at all, but out of obligation, they felt like they HAD to get married.

What about those who marry and INTEND on cheating on their spouse from the get go?

What about those who had a few drinks, and decided to get married the same night?

A couple, out of spite, decides to marry against the wishes of their family.

After being divorced, a soul rushes into marriage to avoid loneliness, tho they don't love the person. 
 
A woman with a daughter from a previous marriage marries a man with INTENT on sexually abusing her daughter.

Did God honor these marriages?

They DO have the rings.

They DO have the Marriage License.

BUT ...

Obviously, it is NOT the physical trinkets or written documentation of a marriage that make two souls who are IN LOVE be deemed as TRULY married IN GOD'S EYES, but rather the TRUE LOVE between two souls as GOD knows the HEART.

The SPIRIT of Marriage lies within the hearts of the couple.

BOTH SOULS

The question then becomes if a marriage is blessed by God or NOT ...

Jesus shared this TRUTH with a woman of Samaria:
 

John 4:15-18
The woman saith unto him, Sir, give me this water, that I thirst not, neither come hither to draw. Jesus saith unto her, Go, call thy husband
, and come hither. The woman answered and said, I have no husband. Jesus said unto her, Thou hast well said, I have no husband: For thou hast had five husbands; and he whom thou now hast is not thy husband: in that saidst thou truly.


TRIVIA TIME

The woman asked for the Spiritual Water ...

Jesus told her to go get her husband ... WHY?

She said that she had no husband ...
Jesus said you speak well for (BECAUSE) you HAVE HAD FIVE HUSBANDS ... and HE WHOM THOU HAST NOW IS NOT YOUR HUSBAND.

Jesus is saying that because this woman had been married five times, that in GOD'S mind, the woman was not married.

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Keep in mind this event took place BEFORE the New Testament.

To find TRUTH ...

Looking at origins of Samaritans we see that they were once Israelites and they were bound by 10 commandments.

The woman answered that she was not married cuz by the time this mysterious stranger had asked her to go get her husband as to obtain the Spiritual Waters, she was convicted and in that Spiritual realm knowing she was in the presence of a holy being.

She asked for SPIRITUAL WATER and Jesus gave it to her.

The SPIRIT of TRUTH.

SHE WAS NOT MARRIED IN GOD'S EYES.

This brings up an interesting question ...

IF A MARRIAGE WAS NOT BLESSED BY GOD ...

Do the "rules" of marriage apply?
 
The Bible shares quite a bit with us about TRUE Marriages, but keep in mind that the various authors in the Bible, are referring to those marriages which WERE honored by God.

You see ... Long ago, they did not do as people do these days and just meet someone at a club, have sex that night and say "I do" the next day as they stood before some guy who is PAID to say ... "I now pronounce you man and wife" ...

So, the laws were written for the way things were to be in ... A TRUE marriage.

 So, you may wanna keep that in mind when you read God's Word.

The TRUTH is ...

ALL laws cannot be applicable to ALL circumstances like some kinda ... "One size fits all" ruling system.

Jesus pointed this TRUTH out clearly.

 
In the Bible, our Lord was tempted yet again by the Pharisees when they asked Him a question about the LAW regarding marriage and divorce...
 

Matthew 19:3
The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for EVERY cause?

Jesus answered them...

Matthew 19:4-6
Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be ONE flesh? Wherefore they are no more twain, but ONE flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

Jesus said that when two marry, they become ONE.

The Pharisees questioned His response, using law...

Matthew 19:7
Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?

Jesus responded ...

Matthew 19:8-9
Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

 This caused concern with His disciples and they said to Jesus:

Matthew 19:10
If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.

Then Jesus said something that we all need to HEAR and UNDERSTAND ...

Matthew 19:11
All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.

In other words ... All Laws do not apply to all people, all of the time. 

THE LAW IS NOT, WAS NOT AND CAN NOT EVER BE ...

"ONE SIZE FITS ALL"

In particular when it comes to LOVE.

For God IS Love.

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The point being made is that we must discern IF our marriage or potential marriage was/is blessed by God, before we can determine what we should do next.

Because if it was... We should find ways to bring God's will to pass.

If not... We need to pray about it and get His guidance on what should be done.

HOWEVER ... I want to be VERY clear that God can take a bad combination that may APPEAR not to meant to be and make it righteous, with a lil repenting and prayer.

The perfect example is Ö King David.

In 2 Samuel, Chapter 11 Ö We find that King David desired Uriahís wife Bathsheba, so David had sex with her and she got pregnant. David tried to get her husband Uriah to come lay with his wife, so that he would think it was his own child, but he refused and said he would not enjoy such comforts while his brethren were at war. Then David had Uriah killed by placing him on the front line of a war that was ongoing between Israel and another nation, and after he was dead, took Bathsheba to be his wife.

In 2 Samuel, Chapter 12 Ö We find that in punishment for this, God said the child conceived between David and Bathsheba would die and the child did die. After this a child from David and the SAME woman became the next King of Israel and was blessed by God. His name was Solomon. In fact Ö God chose JESUS to be placed in that SAME bloodline. 

So, this union may not have been God's will at first, but David REPENTED to GOD.

When we repent to GOD and our loving Father forgives Ö

God TRULY forgives:
 

Psalm 103:12
As far as the east is from the west, so far hath He removed our transgressions from us.
 

So, my friend ... If you are being hounded by others because of your marriage and this is the reason for many of the problems that are occurring ... Please remember that NOBODY has any right to try and have us carry guilt when GOD forgave us, as tho they require that we repent to THEM as well.

NOTHING and NOBODY can separate us from Godís Grace.

When God says, we are forgiven.

WE ARE FORGIVEN.

And if you are someone that is being judged by others and really are trying to do what the Lord wants of you ...

Remember this:

Romans 8:38-39
For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
 

NOTHING OR NOBODY CAN SEPARATE US FROM THE LOVE THAT OUR LORD HAS FOR US OR HIS FORGIVENESS AND GRACE.

Though many would like for us to believe this about ourselves at times, due to our poor choices in the past which may have resulted in sin ... The Word of God ASSURES us that our Salvation is not determined by man Ö

But rather by a merciful and Loving Father.

Many Religious leaders like to use 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 as to keep women in abusive relationships only to have the relationship end in bitterness and even death ...

They also like to use ... "What God brought together, let no man put asunder"

However, that brings forth the real question ...

DID GOD BRING THAT ABUSIVE MARRIAGE TOGETHER?

Is God then divided against Himself because He wants Love to be FOREVER by these shared words:

"What God brought together, let no man put asunder"

 God forbid.

It is mankind's use of marriage that has brought on the divisions and variations of judgment. In particular in today's society where most go from hello to I do before establishing a foundation in friendship. Some marry out of CON-venience, lust, trying to get away from home, etc. ... The obvious result is division by divorce as it was not to be in the first place.

Is it not God's will to have them apart as they were not meant to be married and made a poor choice?

TRUE marriage is the union of two minds, hearts and souls and they become ONE in LOVE.

So again ... Whether God deems a specific marriage REAL becomes THE question to ponder.



 I want to take this opportunity to say that this program is NOT a passport to get out of a marriage so that you step out and can get you a new man or woman.

God Forbid ...

But, rather the TRUTH for those who it applies to.

If you WERE married in LOVE and in God's eyes and you have accumulated the worldly ways and just want a way out so you can go an follow the trends of today, as cattle to the slaughter ...

This program is not applicable.

HEAR THESE WORDS ...

If the shoe fits ... Slap that rascal on Cinderella.

If it does not ... It is not wise to try to apply it as the results will not be the same.

He who hath wisdom, hear this TRUTH.

Matthew 19:11
All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.

Therefore ... IF you are in a bad marriage, being abused and are considering divorceÖ
 

Here is a study that you may be interested in:
 

If you want to try and find out what GOD'S WILL is and/or you really want to learn more on how to make a marriage work and/or find ways to enhance your existing happy marriage.
 

Letís keep going! 

 

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BEFORE YOU BEGIN THE STEPS WITHIN THE TILL DEATH DO US PART PATH ...

I would like for you to CHOOSE to start a Christian journal for this program.

I would like for you to consider starting a personal journal of your own, so you can look back and see your progress throughout the program.

What things stood out to you the most?  What was the hardest to accept?  What would you like to remember?  What do you need to work on? 

You can write whatever you feel compelled to write. 

In your Christian journal, I would like for you to CHOOSE to share whatever comes to mind and heart, just as others are doing that are on the Til Death Do Us Part path.

You can create one at home or if you prefer, you can use the Christianity Oasis Til Death Do Us Part forum and share thoughts with others who are on the path, have completed the path and/or may have answers you seek or perhaps you may have answers those who are new to the path, seek.

If you are already a member, you could use the Til Death Do Us Part Christian Marriage Bible study Forum to post your blogs.

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Whether your journal be online or at home ...

Be sure to write in your journal each day throughout the program.

Each day is a new day, with new thoughts and ideas and questions.

When you are done with today's sharing of thoughts ... I want you to ponder on all that we have talked about today. You can reread this page at any time and as many times as you like ...

BUT please CHOOSE not to go on to the next step until tomorrow.   

Continuing in EACH step daily is so very important.

Go back over each step often to be sure you have not missed anything.

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To continue our program, you can return tomorrow and choose the next step on the forum page:


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