ROMANCE IN THE BIBLE VERSES STUDY
ROMANTIC BIBLE VERSES EXPLAINED
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ROMANCE IN THE BIBLE VERSES
ROMANTIC BIBLE VERSES
We have just learned how important forgiveness and Grace
are in a marriage and how we are to try and refresh our
marriage by doing some of the things that we once did for
our spouse, but no longer do.
You were also given the opportunity to create a chart for things that you and your spouse can do together
and to work
on as to restore the LOVE that you once felt.
Today, we are going to look at ways to create, enhance or restore the romance.
Romance MAKES the marriage special.
It makes you feel loved and WANTED by your spouse,
doesn’t it?
Who doesn’t like to be wanted and feel SPECIAL?
Consider these simple ideas of
enhancing the romance within your marriage ...
A husband has to go away on a business trip for 4 days. He
packs his bags the night before and gets ready for bed. The
wife takes little notes that she had written previously and puts them
within his luggage in various places such as in his pockets,
his shoes, his toiletry bag, his wallet, etc. For the
entire 4 days, the husband was finding love notes from his
wife and smiling each time. His mind was constantly on her
as each hour he seemed to find a new note with a precious
message in it.
There was an older married couple. Instead of writing love
notes to each other, they had a different “game” they
played. At random times,
one would leave the letter S on something around the house.
To them, S
symbolized "Smile cuz I love you" ... They would
leave the letter written in the sugar, so when the other
opened up the sugar, they would see it ... And smile, knowing
that the other thought of them when they did it. She would unroll all the
toilet paper just to put on the toilet paper roll “S”, and
then roll it all back up.
If the dust built up too much on the TV, an S was inscribed
in it by one or the other. Of course the bath mirror had an
"S" on it quite often.
Constant reminders to each other that they ARE loved by the
other.
When was the last time you wrote a love note to your spouse?
Here are a few examples of what
a note could say:
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I'm so glad you're my husband/wife.
I smile when I think about you!
You make my life wonderful.
Remember when we said "I Do," well I still do!
When I met you, I couldn't believe how lucky I was.
Since we've been married, I can't believe how lucky
I AM!
The most amazing part of my life is YOU!
Let's run away together - to the bedroom!
You make every day a great day.
We may not be perfect, but we're perfect for each
other!
Today is a great day because the first thing I saw
this morning was your beautiful face.
I'd do it all over again.
I’m so in love with you.
I’m YOURS.
I’m so glad we are best friends.
You are beautiful.
Our hands fit perfectly together.
I just wanted to remind you I love you!
You are so amazing!
I am so blessed to have you in my life.
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ROMANCE IN THE BIBLE VERSES LESSON
ROMANTIC BIBLE VERSES ON LOVE
Let’s see what compliments
were used in the Song of Solomon:
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The Song of Solomon 4:1-11
Behold, thou art fair, my love; behold, thou art
fair; thou hast doves' eyes within thy locks: thy
hair is as a flock of goats, that appear from mount
Gilead. Thy teeth are like a flock of sheep that are
even shorn, which came up from the washing; whereof
every one bear twins, and none is barren among them.
Thy lips are like a thread of scarlet, and thy
speech is comely: thy temples are like a piece of a
pomegranate within thy locks. Thy neck is like the
tower of David builded for an armoury, whereon there
hang a thousand bucklers, all shields of mighty men.
Thy two breasts are like two young roes that are
twins, which feed among the lilies. Until the day
break, and the shadows flee away, I will get me to
the mountain of myrrh, and to the hill of
frankincense. Thou art all fair, my love; there is
no spot in thee. Come with me from Lebanon, my
spouse, with me from Lebanon: look from the top of
Amana, from the top of Shenir and Hermon, from the
lions' dens, from the mountains of the leopards.
Thou hast ravished my heart, my sister, my spouse;
thou hast ravished my heart with one of thine eyes,
with one chain of thy neck. How fair is thy love, my
sister, my spouse! how much better is thy love than
wine! and the smell of thine ointments than all
spices! Thy lips, O my spouse, drop as the
honeycomb: honey and milk are under thy tongue; and
the smell of thy garments is like the smell of
Lebanon.
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What are some things that you can do to spice up the romance
in your marriage?
Next time you want special attention, turn down the lights,
light some candles, and play some music.
Write your partner flirty or sweet notes. Leave them in
their car, on the mirror or door, and/or in their bag/briefcase or
lunch.
Kiss your partner like you mean it when they walk in and out
of the
door.
Send your partner a card/flowers at work.
Surprise your spouse with a romantic night out (or in).
Schedule a babysitter and make reservations at an elegant,
no-kids-allowed restaurant.
What else did Solomon recommend for us to try?
How about a lil ... Spontaneity!
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The Song of Solomon 7:1-13
I am my beloved's, and his desire is toward me.
Come, my beloved, let us go forth into the field;
let us lodge in the villages. Let us get up early to
the vineyards; let us see if the vine flourish,
whether the tender grape appear, and the
pomegranates bud forth: there will I give thee my
loves. The mandrakes give a smell, and at our gates
are all manner of pleasant fruits, new and old,
which I have laid up for thee, O my beloved.
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ROMANCE IN THE BIBLE VERSES BLESSING
ROMANTIC BIBLE VERSES HEAL
Take a walk or drive to just
anywhere.
Escape somewhere TOGETHER! Get
away! Just the two of you!
Flirting! Remember what that was like?
Bring that BACK into
the marriage!
Remember when you used to just
stare into your spouses eyes and sojourn into another realm?
When is the last time you
looked into your spouses eyes?
Did you know that EYES are the
portal to one’s soul?
Ever notice how you can tell how new a couple is or not? The
newer couples can’t seem to stop staring at each other!
Get lost in each other’s eyes again.
Look into each other’s souls and forget about the
REAL world around you.
Eyes are UNIQUE.
Something else that is UNIQUE ...
Someone’s SCENT
I am NOT talking about the
perfume and cologne that people choose to cover their
natural scent with.
I am referring to the YOU-nique scent that only that person has.
Romance keeps the daily stress and worries to a minimum. It
puts you up on “Cloud 9.”
On Cloud 9, nothing can touch you.
No stress, no worry ... Just TRUE LOVE itself.
Romance is extremely important ... But don’t forget a strong
foundation a marriage should have ...
FRIENDSHIP.
Lovers should also be FRIENDS.
BEST OF FRIENDS.
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The Song of Solomon 5:16
His mouth is most sweet: yea, he is altogether
lovely. This is my beloved, and this is my friend, O
daughters of Jerusalem.
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Were you and your spouse not once
best friends?
If the friendship that you once shared is gone, why not strive to get it back?
Remember the best memories that you have of being together when it
was just “friends.”
It IS within your power to
restore the romance in your marriage, ya know ...
Even if they do not APPEAR to
be interested at first.
You know how when someone yawns, the people around that
person can’t help but yawn? Even thinking about yawning
usually causes you to yawn.
The same goes with a smile.
If
you smile at someone, they automatically smile back.
Romance is the same way.
It is contagious.
If you desire to be romantic with your spouse, they will
likely follow your lead and want to play back ...
IF you are
able to restore the first love.
ROMANCE IN THE BIBLE VERSES PROMISE
ROMANTIC BIBLE VERSES AND GRACE
And if they do not respond ... Don’t stop
after one instance.
If you are TRULY interested in
restoring the LOVE that you once had ...
Keep it coming consistently.
Do at least one romantic thing for your spouse every
day.
Whether they return the gesture
or not ...
They will at some point ... IF you
persist until you succeed.
It doesn’t have to be anything huge ... Even subtle lil notes keep the
excitement building.
Think about ways that YOU can add romance back into your
marriage.
You may be pleasantly surprised
at the results you receive.
Do not take your Love for
granted.
Let’s read a story together that gives a slight idea of what
can happen when we take someone for granted.
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Once
upon a time, there was a guy who met a girl and he was very much
in love with this girl. To show his love ... This
romantic fella folded
1,000 pieces of paper cranes as a gift to his girl.
They were so much in love, but one had a secret
passion.
Although, at that time he was just a small executive
in his company and his future didn't seem too
bright, the guy always spoke of HIS dreams of
becoming someone important and being rich. This was
the topic of many of their conversations and
everything he did, was for that purpose. But, he
just couldn't seem to climb that corporate ladder
quick enough. And the woman saw this.
One day, his girl told him that she was going to
Paris and was never coming back. She also told him
that she cannot visualize any type of future for the
both of them, so she suggested they go their own
separate ways ...
Heartbroken, the guy agreed.
When he regained his confidence, he worked hard day
and night. He now had but ONE goal and that was to
be important and rich. Finally with all this
hard work and spending ALL of his time working
towards his goals, this guy had
set up his own company ...
An employee asked him his secret to success and he
responded:
"You have to look out for number one"
One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an
elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain
walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella,
they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to
realize that they were his ex-girlfriend's parents.
With a heart filled with revenge, he drove slowly
beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his
luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he WAS
important and had his own company,
condo, etc.
He had made it in life!
Before the guy could do so, he realized the couple was walking
towards a cemetery, and he got out of his car and
followed them. They walked up to a certain grave
site.
He looked at the tombstone and he saw
a photograph of his ex-girlfriend, smiling sweetly as ever at him ...
He also saw his precious paper cranes in a bottle placed beside her tomb.
He walked over
to her parents and asked them what had happened. They explained,
that she did not ever leave
for France at all. She was stricken ill with cancer.
In her heart, she knew that her love would make it
someday, but she did not want her illness to be his
obstacle ... Therefore she had chosen to leave him
... For him to be able to have HIS dream.
She asked her parents to put the paper cranes that
her love gave her beside her, because, if the day
ever came when fate would bring him to her again, he
would know of the love she had for him.
The guy just
dropped to the ground and wept ...
He had traded the love of his life for dreams of
fame and riches.
Now, that he had it ... All he wanted was HER.
As he sat there looking at her beautiful eyes in her
photo, he discovered that the worst way to
miss someone is to be sitting right beside them, but
knowing you will never be with them
again.
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The
moral of this story is:
Do not trade
up something as precious as love for selfish and temporal
aspirations and dreams.
ROMANCE IN THE BIBLE VERSES RESEARCH
ROMANTIC BIBLE VERSES FEARS AND TEARS
Treasure what you have while you have it ...
Time is too slow for those who wait;
Too swift for those who fear;
Too long for those who grief;
Too short for those who rejoice;
But for those who love ...
Time is Eternity.
For all of you out there with someone special in your heart
... Cherish that person. Cherish every moment that you are
ALLOWED to spend
together with that special someone, for in life, anything can
happen at any time.
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Don’t Take the Girl- Tim McGraw
Johnny’s daddy was taking him fishin’
When he was eight years old
A little girl came through the front gate holdin’ a
fishing pole
His dad looked down and smiled, said we cant leave
her behind
Son I know you don’t want her to go but someday
you’ll change your mind
And Johnny said take Jimmy Johnson, take Tommy
Thompson, take my best friend Bo
Take anybody that you want as long as she don’t go
Take any boy in the world
Daddy please don’t take the girl
Same old boy
Same sweet girl
Ten years down the road
He held her tight and kissed her lips
In front of the picture show
Stranger came and pulled a gun
Grabbed her by the arm said if you do what I tell
you to, there wont be any harm
And Johnny said take my money, take my wallet, take
my credit cards
Here’s the watch that my grandpa gave me
Here’s the key to my car
Mister give it a whirl
But please don’t take the girl
Same old boy
Same sweet girl
Five years down the road
There’s going to be a little one and she says its
time to go
Doctor says the baby’s fine but you’ll have to leave
cause his mommas fading fast and Johnny hit his
knees and there he prayed
Take the very breath you gave me
Take the heart from my chest
Ill gladly take her place if you’ll let me
Make this my last request
Take me out of this world
God, please don’t take the girl
Johnny’s daddy
Was taking him fishin’
When he was eight years old
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Do not
wait until it is too late.
Now, another story.
Notice
what happens with the one man that was given only one
“talent.”
What did he do with it?
ROMANCE IN THE BIBLE VERSES PARABLES
ROMANTIC BIBLE VERSES TEACHINGS
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Matthew 25:14-29
For the kingdom of heaven is as a man travelling
into a far country, who called his own servants, and
delivered unto them his goods. And unto one he gave
five talents, to another two, and to another one; to
every man according to his several ability; and
straightway took his journey. Then he that had
received the five talents went and traded with the
same, and made them other five talents. And likewise
he that had received two, he also gained other two.
But he that had received one went and digged in the
earth, and hid his lord's money. After a long time
the lord of those servants cometh, and reckoneth
with them. And so he that had received five talents
came and brought other five talents, saying, Lord,
thou deliveredst unto me five talents: behold, I
have gained beside them five talents more. His lord
said unto him, Well done, thou good and faithful
servant: thou hast been faithful over a few things,
I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou
into the joy of thy lord. He also that had received
two talents came and said, Lord, thou deliveredst
unto me two talents: behold, I have gained two other
talents beside them. His lord said unto him, Well
done, good and faithful servant; thou hast been
faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler
over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy
lord. Then he which had received the one talent came
and said, Lord, I knew thee that thou art an hard
man, reaping where thou hast not sown, and gathering
where thou hast not strawed: And I was afraid, and
went and hid thy talent in the earth: lo, there thou
hast that is thine. His lord answered and said unto
him, Thou wicked and slothful servant, thou knewest
that I reap where I sowed not, and gather where I
have not strawed: Thou oughtest therefore to have
put my money to the exchangers, and then at my
coming I should have received mine own with usury.
Take therefore the talent from him, and give it unto
him which hath ten talents. For unto every one that
hath shall be given, and he shall have abundance:
but from him that hath not shall be taken away even
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instead of using the talent that he was given to do some good for
others as it was intended, he hid it for himself.
Do we do that within our own marriage?
Do we use the
gifts that we have been given for ourselves only or use do
we use them to
better our spouse as well?
ROMANCE IN THE BIBLE VERSES BRING HOPE
ROMANTIC BIBLE VERSES SUGGEST TRYING HARDER
Notice the themes of the stories so far.
NOTHING is
ours ... It is merely a gift given to us by the Lord.
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1 Timothy 6:7
For we brought nothing into this world, and it is
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Job 1:21
And said, Naked came I out of my mother's womb, and
naked shall I return thither: the LORD gave, and the
LORD hath taken away; blessed be the name of the
LORD.
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These gifts
can be taken at any time, so we are to treasure them while
we are able top do so.
The ole cliché rings true ...
“You never know what you have until it's gone.”
Sooo ... Let’s do this right.
Let’s change our perspective.
What are some small things that we can do to show our spouse we
appreciate them?
What about dinner?
A lot of frustration can stem around
“dinner time”
What are some things we can do to break that negative
routine?
How about one offers to help the other person cook?
Do the dishes without being asked when dinner is over?
Have a conversation about POSITIVE things during dinner.
Say THANK YOU when the meal is over ... Either for the other
spouse cooking or for the company that they gave you during
dinner.
Have you noticed how the situation drastically changes when
someone says “thank you” for something?
It seems to make
everything okay again.
No one
is being TOLD what to do ... Rather thanked for what they have
done. Then, when a favor is asked later, they are more
willing to do it rather than kicking the dirt and doing it
because they HAVE to.
(IF they decide to do it at all).
Lemme share another scenario ...
There is a couple that has been married for quite some time.
One day, at a routine doctor visit, one was told that they have terminal cancer.
Everything for this couple has just changed.
Do you expect
the couple to continue in their own selfish ways?
NO ... BOTH lives change.
What would YOU do for your spouse if you found out they had
terminal cancer?
LIVE
EACH DAY WITH YOUR LOVED ONE AS IF IT COULD BE THE LAST
ROMANCE IN THE BIBLE VERSES SUMMARY
ROMANTIC BIBLE VERSES CONCLUSION
Don’t take for granted what you have, God can and has taken
away the spouse and/or negatively affected the marriages and
families as to grab
attention to restore the love.
You KNOW what you need to do now. It is your CHOICE to love,
or not to love.
IF you CHOOSE to love ... God will bless
that love and marriage.
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STEP FIVE
ROMANCE IN THE BIBLE STUDY ON ROMANTIC BIBLE VERSES
In order to complete step five ...
Choose to appreciate what you have by knowing how you would
feel if it were gone and trying to add romance to your life.
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