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Christianity Oasis Ministry has provided you with this a Contentious Woman Bible study on a Contentious Woman Bible verse which looks at the Contentious Woman Bible verse message and asks what a Contentious Woman, what are a Contentious Woman dangers, why is a Contentious Woman to be avoided, what is the Contentious Woman Bible verse message and how does the Contentious Woman Bible verse message affect your Christian walk. Most have read of a Contentious Woman but know not what a contentious woman truly is and that they may be a contentious woman. Let us seek within the Bible and find the truth of the a Contentious Woman Bible verse with a Contentious Woman Bible message together in this Contentious Woman Bible study, shall we?

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THE VIRTUOUS WOMAN
A RECIPE

STEP #18


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Today's Virtuous Vitamin is
~MEEKNESS~
gentle ~ humble 

 

Proverbs 31 ... Verse 26
She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.

 

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A CONTENTIOUS WOMAN BIBLE STUDY ON A CONTENTIOUS WOMAN BIBLE VERSE WITH A CONTENTIOUS WOMAN DANGERS AND A CONTENTIOUS WOMAN MESSAGE


Hello my dear lady friend. Glad to have you back to share more TRUTH together.

Did you notice that this verse describes the way Jesus talked? It takes a special kind of person, when they're confronted with the kinds of situations that Jesus was, to respond with such prudence and humility. This is something that we women, should strive for in our conversation. It should be second nature to us to respond to people the way Jesus responded to people. Sometimes people love to just hear themselves talk, so they'll say just about anything, but how much of that talk is wise and kind? If you have something wise or kind to say, my dear one, say on, because others will learn from it and you're glorifying God by doing so. If you're talking just to gain someone else's attention, it may be a good idea to stop and think about what it is that you're saying and why you're saying it.

You know from life experience, that the more a person talks, the more opportunity there is for disagreement, debate, misunderstanding, and down right trouble to be stirred up. Some people mistakenly think that talking a lot makes them appear more intelligent.

But is that the TRUTH? 

Proverbs 9:13
A foolish woman is clamorous: she is simple, and knoweth nothing.

Do you like fortune cookies?

Think of the Proverbs in the Bible, as God's fortune cookies. They're little bits of wisdom to apply to our everyday lives.

Take a look at these ..

A CONTENTIOUS WOMAN WARNING ON A CONTENTIOUS WOMAN DANGERS WITH A CONTENTIOUS WOMAN CONCERNS

Proverbs 21:19
It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.

 

Proverbs 27:15
A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike.

A CONTENTIOUS WOMAN IS TO BE AVOIDED AT ALL COSTS

Most of the Proverbs in the Bible were written by king Solomon, who God blessed with being the wisest man to ever live. Solomon wrote many Proverbs that teach us that being meek and holding our tongue is a very wise thing to do. Why did God choose Solomon to be so wise? Because when God told Solomon to ask Him for anything his heart desired, he was meek, and unselfish.

1 Kings 3:5-14
In Gibeon the LORD appeared to Solomon in a dream by night: and God said, Ask what I shall give thee. And Solomon said, Thou hast showed unto thy servant David my father great mercy, according as he walked before thee in TRUTH, and in righteousness, and in uprightness of heart with thee; and thou hast kept for him this great kindness, that thou hast given him a son to sit on his throne, as it is this day. And now, O LORD my God, thou hast made thy servant king instead of David my father: and I am but a little child: I know not how to go out or come in. And thy servant is in the midst of thy people which thou hast chosen, a great people, that cannot be numbered nor counted for multitude. Give therefore thy servant an understanding heart to judge thy people, that I may discern between good and bad: for who is able to judge this thy so great a people? And the speech pleased the LORD, that Solomon had asked this thing. And God said unto him, Because thou hast asked this thing, and hast not asked for thyself long life; neither hast asked riches for thyself, nor hast asked the life of thine enemies; but hast asked for thyself understanding to discern judgment; Behold, I have done according to thy words: lo, I have given thee a wise and an understanding heart; so that there was none like thee before thee, neither after thee shall any arise like unto thee. And I have also given thee that which thou hast not asked, both riches, and honor: so that there shall not be any among the kings like unto thee all thy days. And if thou wilt walk in my ways, to keep my statutes and my commandments, as thy father David did walk, then I will lengthen thy days.

 There are 31 Chapters of Proverbs ... The perfect amount to read one chapter a day each month. They will also teach you many virtues that God expects from you. Why not even write them down on little pieces of paper and put one under each family member's plate at the dinner table each night, and you can discuss them over dinner or dessert with your family. It's a great way to share God's Word with your loved ones.

WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE

Psalms 111:10
The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: a good understanding have all they that do His commandments: His praise endureth for ever.
Proverbs 2:5
Then shalt thou understand the fear of the LORD, and find the knowledge of God.

James 1:5
If any of you lack wisdom, let Him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.

Wisdom is different than knowledge. Wisdom is understanding the spiritual meaning of something. Knowledge is simply memorizing and repeating something. Knowledge is a skill, that practically anyone can learn, but wisdom is a gift. An encyclopedia is full of knowledge, but an encyclopedia cannot be wise.

Ahhhhh, wisdom. Itís something that everyone wishes they had more of. This is an interesting poem comparing wisdom and knowledge:
 


The Difference between Knowledge and Wisdom

 by William Cowper
 

Knowledge and wisdom, far from being one,

Have ofttimes no connexion.  Knowledge dwells

In heads replete with thoughts of other men;

Wisdom in minds attentive to their own.

Knowledge, a rude unprofitable mass,

The mere materials with which Wisdom builds,

Till smooth'd and squared and fitted t' its place,

Does but encumber whom it seems to enrich.

Knowledge is proud that he has learned so much:

Wisdom is humble that he knows no more.

 


Wisdom is quiet, as you'll find is noted several times in the Proverbs. A wise woman is quiet and meek. You arenít the court jester. You don't have to put your two cents in about everything. You don't think it's fun to embarrass someone, or put anyone on the spot. Do you know women like that, who are abrasive? Some have to laugh the loudest and longest, some have to have the last word, some are know-it-alls, some are gossips. Be guarded in the presence of women who cuss like sailors or pass around off color jokes ... It's the enemy that has a hold on them, and would love to entice you to do the same. Pray for them. It may take some practice to be meek, because the world has taught people to be so ... Comfortable ... Being crude.

Proverbs 13:3
He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction.

A virtuous woman doesnít have to hear herself talk Ö You love to hear the Spirit of the Lord talk. The only attention you long for is from God. Respectable is what you are. You're not aggressive, brusque or sarcastic. You're not a busybody. You're not rude. If you donít have TRUTH or goodness to speak of, you need not utter a word.

Proverbs 21:23
Whoso keepeth his mouth and his tongue keepeth his soul from troubles.
Proverbs 21:9
It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.
Proverbs 21:19
It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.
Proverbs 27:15
A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike.
1 Peter 3:4-5
But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands ...

Proverbs 8:13
The fear of the LORD is to hate evil: pride, and arrogancy, and the evil way, and the froward mouth, do I hate.

Need I SAY more?

Remember Thumper from the animated movie Bambi? Thumper said something that could have hurt Bambi's feelings, so his mother reminded him, What did your dad tell you? And Thumper answered slowly, If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. Such a cute little story, and we emphatically admonish our children to heed these kinds of teachings, but as adults, do we do the same?

SUFFERING FROM DRAGON BREATH?

James talks about the troubles that talking can get a person into. 

James 3:5-10
Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth! And
the tongue is a fire
, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell. For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed of mankind: But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison. Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God. Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.

A CONTENTIOUS WOMAN CHANGE IS NEEDED

It's a virtuous act to stop and think before you blurt out something that you may be sorry for later. As a child, I used to get angry at my dad because he would tell me time and time again, You should count to 10 before you speak. I wish I had known then that he just had my best interests at heart. (I probably reminded him of Thumper back then!)

Proverbs 25:11
A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.

Now, nobody is saying that you can't be yourself ... But don't forget, your old self and your new self are different. Not two separate spirits, but your spirit is reborn. The new you is renewed in the faith and your spontaneous responses to situations and things in conversation will change a lot. Don't get too upset with yourself if you make a boo boo here and there and from time to time utter something that you wish you hadn't ... As I said before, several times, we hurt other people plenty without doing it on purpose, and we probably speak out of turn even more so. Be patient, but be diligent in choosing righteous words and conversation.

And as always, reflect on God's Grace, every day of your life.


STEP #18

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MEEKNESS

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