HOW TO BECOME A GOOD WIFE BIBLE RECIPE
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Welcome back ...
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Today's
Virtuous
Vitamin
is
~GOODNESS~
righteousness |
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Proverbs
31 ...
Verse 12
She will do
him good and
not evil all
the days of
her life. |
HOW TO BECOME A GOOD WIFE BIBLE STEPS
BEING A GOOD WIFE BIBLE FREEDOM
GOOD day, GOOD friend.
Today, we're going to
talk about being GOOD.
If you were to create an
endangered species list, "goodness"
would be up
near the top. Evil has
been slowly killing off
this virtue in women and
replacing it with it's
own family of "untamed
animals" ...
GOOD GRIEF!
What comes to mind when
I mention the word
whoredom? I ask because
this term seems to be
reserved in this day and
age for the practice of
harlotry as they called
it way back when, or
prostitution as it is
referred to today, but
when you become familiar
with the text of the
Bible, you'll find that
anything that led people
(and not only women
either) away from the
Lord was considered
whoredom. For those who
are exasperated by the
TRUTH of the word, or
are offended by it's
repugnance, I don't
blame you. Some actions
which the world
practices that are
considered normal ... Or
GOOD, are just as
repulsive to our Lord.
So as not to offend,
instead of the word
whoredom, I'll use the
word 'evil' instead.
HOW DID THIS HAPPEN?
I've mentioned how the
enemy ever so slowly
tempts people into
believing evil is good,
and I'll give you a good
example so you can
understand it a little
clearer and get another
perspective of it.
If you put a frog in a
pot of cold water and
put it on the stove and
slowly boil the pot, the
frog will stay in the
water until it boils to
death because the change
is so slow, it gets used
to the gradual changes
of temperature and
doesn't notice that it's
in grave danger. But
boil a pot of water and
throw a frog into the
boiling pot and the frog will jump out
of the pot immediately because the
danger is evident.
Now, let me tie in to
our next topic. Did
you know that years ago, it was
illegal to cuss on
television?
Television and the film
industry, until
recently, have probably been the largest demise of
virtue and promoters of
'evil' in our lifetime.
Think of how this
influential medium of
“entertainment” has gone
from The Walton's, where
good morals were taught,
to The Simpson’s, and so
much worse
(I don't even like to
name the programs I'm
referring to, because
even their titles are indecent). In
this day and age instead
of promoting goodness,
it's the unraveling of
morals that is praised.
In between were
subtle changes
that slowly
allowed more and more
evil of every kind to
infiltrate innocent
minds and slowly
convince people that
evil is in style, like a
new trend.
Does this
remind you of a frog you
heard of recently?
Commercials are probably
the worst. Does it not
bother anyone that our
cherished little
children's mushy little
brains are
unsuspectingly being
filled with filth while
we stand by believing
it's all wholesome and
funny and proper enough
because the world
accepts it? How much
more naive are we going
to get?
HOW TO BECOME A GOOD WIFE BIBLE INSTRUCTIONS
BEING A GOOD WIFE BIBLE PATH
They have public service
announcements on TV that
ask, "It's 8:00, Do you
know where your children
are?" ... But why don't
they warn about the
danger that they're in
right in their own
living rooms?
IT'S 8:00,
DO YOU KNOW WHAT THIS
TELEVISION
IS TEACHING YOUR
CHILDREN?
If Jesus was sitting in
your living room with
you and the fam, could
you honestly be
comfortable watching
just about any
television show or movie
today, and be confident
that this amusement is
what the Lord approves
of for His children to watch
and learn? Or would you
hide your face in shame?
Not only is this evil
viewed, but it is
practiced by
most of society each and
every day. They don’t
realize that what
they're watching is
evil, except in extreme
cases. Instead, they
think it's just
“normal.” In the
meanwhile, they're being
brainwashed, over, and over and over
again.
From the Lord’s point of
view, is this virtuous?
ASK YOURSELF QUESTIONS
Am I teaching my
children good virtues?
Am I sitting with them
and when something evil
is presented as normal,
do I point it out to my
children (and myself)
and say it out loud to
expose the lies to the
light of TRUTH? Ask
yourself in everything
you do: Is this really a
virtuous deed, or has
society caused me to
accept evil as
acceptable because of
it’s gradual
lures away from
godliness? You may not
have noticed the
deception, but rest
assured, God does.
Does this mean that
watching television is
bad and that you won't
be virtuous if you do?
Not at all. But if you
don't identify the evil
when it appears, and
my friend, it happens
every few seconds in
some cases, or if you
don't turn your head
when half naked people
appear on the screen,
and if you allow your
family to believe that
you think that when evil
is presented on the
screen, that you're in
harmony with it being
normal, then you may
want to have a little pow wow with your
Creator and Lord and ask
His advice about if
you're on the same page
as He concerning the
amusement you choose and allow your family exposure to.
HOW TO BECOME A GOOD WIFE BIBLE STUDY
BEING A GOOD WIFE BIBLE ESCAPE
If anyone ever told you
it was easy to live a
godly life in such an
ungodly world as we live
in, they lied. As I said
before, it’s not easy,
but things easily
attained are usually not
worth much. The trials
and tribulations that
you endure as a virtuous
Christian woman are what
make you different from
the rest. Actually,
ceasing to watch
television shows that
are rubbish would not
really be considered
trial and tribulation
(though I'm certain
there are multitudes of
women who will feel like
they're going through
some kind of withdrawal
if they give up certain
TV programs that they've
let themselves become
emotionally involved
in), but the ridicule
that you might receive
from family or friends
because you choose not
to invite
unrighteousness into
your home may be a bit
more of a trial. Allow
me to be a bit candid.
Do you want to be
different? Are you
willing to do what it
takes? You certainly
have the capability.
Sweet friend, if you
choose not to, Jesus
will invite someone who
will. Invite them to
what? He will invite
THEM to be His bride.
CALL 'EM LIKE YOU SEE
'EM
Again, I stress to you,
identify evil whenever
it is presented in any
form, by anyone or
anything, at anytime.
Tell the TRUTH out loud
about it. Especially in
front of children who
will surmise that all of
the filth that is
smuggled and snuggled
into their precious
little minds is okey
dokey if you don't tell
otherwise.
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1
Thessalonians
5:22-23
Abstain from
all
appearance
of evil. And
the very God
of peace
sanctify you
wholly; and
I pray God
your whole
spirit and
soul and
body be
preserved
blameless
unto the
coming of
our Lord
Jesus
Christ. |
HOW TO BECOME A GOOD WIFE BIBLE DISCUSSION
BEING A GOOD WIFE BIBLE TEACHINGS
I want you to know that
it is understood that
you can't help it that
things appear on
television or anywhere
really, which aren't
virtuous. Everyone knows
that you didn't ask for
the world to bring it to
you. Billboards. Newspapers. Radio. School. Friends. Family. Sometimes you can't
avoid it. It's not your
fault that the enemy
presents evil to you,
and if it seems like it
happens to you more than
most others you know,
it's either because you
have become more
virtuous so now you're
more aware of it, or
it's because you're
getting closer to the
Lord and the enemy is
afraid his chances for
winning your soul are
getting slimmer, so he
turns up the heat.
What you can
do is make every effort
you can to avoid it, as
Paul said above, and may
God count you blameless.
Now, it would simply be
unfair to give Hollywood
all of the credit for
the rapid deterioration
of virtue in our time.
The internet, although
it has only become
popular to the average
family in the last
couple of decades, has
quite possibly surpassed
the destruction of
virtue that television
and film have imposed.
With the click of a
button, people get
addicted to "surfing"
from one form of evil to
another, day after day.
For every site you
visit, the possibility
of receiving E-mail or
pop ups from undesirable
sources gets ever
higher. If you're not
positively certain who
an "E-Mail" is from, it
could very well be
Evil-Mail instead of
Electronic-Mail.
Not only is the content
of the internet
potentially dangerous,
but with the capability
of others to send
"Instant Messages" to
almost anyone and
everyone, and the
ability to gain access
to personal information
about you, the computer
can be extremely
dangerous. Parental
controls can only filter
out so much, and
hackers, stalkers, sex
offenders and profit
seekers consider
everyone open season.
Don't get caught in the
undertow when you're
"surfing" the net. It
may be a net you can't
get out of. Even when
you're seeking something
as innocent as sending
an electronic birthday
card to your
grandmother, or looking
up a recipe for chicken
soup, you'll most likely
see instance after
instance of
advertisements or links
to things that the Lord
would not like to be
impressed upon the mind
of His beloved. In
fact you can include
most every kind of
social media in this
admonishment. Be
alert. Your smart phone may not be so smart, and it certainly doesn't have the best interest of your soul at heart.
OHHH, JUST FORGET I
SAID THAT
😊
It's kind of like a
clever lawyer, who
presents something to
the jury, knowing it
isn't allowed, but when
the opposing lawyer
objects and the judge
says, "The jury will
disregard counsel's last
statement," will they
really be
able to forget what was
said? You can’t un-see
something you’ve already
seen. When you're
surfing the net, Be sure
that your lifeboat (God)
is sitting next to you
when you dive in. Don't
view the things that you
know in your heart the
Lord wouldn't approve
of. Without much
discretion, the dreaded
viruses that computer
users fear are like a
broken fingernail
compared to the fatal
disease that the evil
available on the
internet can infect your
soul with.
HOW TO BECOME A GOOD WIFE BIBLE PROMISE
BEING A GOOD WIFE BIBLE VOWS
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Romans 12:21
Be not
overcome of
evil, but
overcome
evil with
good. |
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1 Peter
1:15-16
But as He
which hath
called you
is holy, so
be ye holy
in all
manner of
conversation
(living);
Because it
is written,
Be ye holy;
for I am
holy. |
Just wanted to repeat
the verse we're studying
here one more time:
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Proverbs 31
... Verse 12
She will do
him good and
not evil all
the days of
her life. |
I'd also like to repeat
a paragraph that you
read in the last step to
sort of set the pace for
what we're going to talk
about next.
If you're a married
woman, you're the queen
of your household and
your husband is the
king. You work
together as a team, for
the good of all in your
family. You have to
trust one another in
order for the family to
work in harmony and be
profitable servants
representing Jesus.
KING OF THE CASTLE
Do you find it difficult
to be a virtuous woman,
because you believe your
soul-mate lacks
fortitude?
Caution:
The paragraphs ahead
contain some frank but
valid suppositions. As
your friend, I firmly
believe that the TRUTH,
though it may sting at
first, is the best way
to attack a problem, so
I've taken the no holds
barred approach to this
particular section, and
I hope that you will,
with open mind and
heart, realize that it
is my purpose for you to
discover how to improve
your life so that you
can better serve and
represent your Christ
Jesus beloved.
HOW TO BECOME A GOOD WIFE BIBLE DETAILS
BEING A GOOD WIFE BIBLE ROAD TO RECOVERY
Please remember this:
If any of the following
does not apply to you,
chances are, you know
someone to whom it does
and perhaps someday you
can help another sister
in Christ with your
objective understanding
of their situation.
Okay, the scenario goes
something like this: A
man and a woman begin
courting. I like to
use that word, courting,
instead of dating,
because in today's day
and age, the word dating
seems to imply that
perhaps the person or
people that are
involved, are not really
seeking their soul mate,
but just wooing people
for the sport of it.
So sorry to keep
interrupting, but one
more little thing before
we begin. There are
scads of couples who get
married to a person that
is NOT their soul-mate.
There are
marriages that weren't
meant to be, from the
beginning ... Marriages
that
perhaps are not holy in
the eyes of the Lord.
Many people stay in
these relationships out
of obligation or fear.
It is a very delicate
matter and if you love
the Lord and you are in
this situation, it can
tear you up inside.
The best
advice I can give to
you, is to ask counsel
of the Holy Spirit for
guidance and also see
the studies on
Christian Divorce
and
Lost Love to
help you understand what
the Bible says about
this delicate issue.
At any rate ... Man ...
Woman ... Courting ...
Decide to marry ... What
next?
Well, I better
tell you a few little
details about the
matter. The bride in
this scenario comes from
a family with a dominant
mother and passive
father. Her mother
always had the last
word, in every matter,
and her dad ... Well, he
tolerated. The groom in
this scenario comes from
a family with much the
same personality traits.
Is it so unusual that
both would come from
families where the
mother was dominant and
the father passive? Not
at all. It's very common
and has been since
Adam and Eve. Think
about it. How many
married couples do you
know that fall into this
general description? My
guess is the majority.
Most women inherently
from Eve, think they're
the boss, and men,
unfortunately settle for
it and follow. EWWWWW!
Ain't it ugly? No,
really, I'm not just trying to be funny. It should be repulsive to you!
So, the bride, right
from the engagement,
makes all the decisions
about the wedding,
because as tradition has
it, the family of the
bride pays for the
wedding, and the family
of the groom pays for
the booze, so the groom
feels like he really has
no right to contest any
choices she makes
concerning the
celebration. This
unfortunately may set the
tone for the rest of the
marriage. Incidentally, who exactly decided what wedding etiquette is and are the wedding police going to arrest you if you don't follow what is considered tradition?
Okay, back to our scenario ... After the wedding and honeymoon, real life sets in,
and inevitably, because
of each individual's
choice to follow in the
footsteps of their
parents' ... And by a
progression and
intensification of the
dominant and passive
characteristics of each
individual applied to
every circumstance of
the marriage, the
supposed merging of two
souls into one, instead begins
to separate.
HOW TO BECOME A GOOD WIFE BIBLE REWARDS
BEING A GOOD WIFE BIBLE CONCERNS
The bride confides in
her mother, who advises
her to ... Well,
truthfully ... Be a
control freak. (No
whining now. If it's
true, it's true. Of
course she wouldn't use
that term.) The groom
confides in his dad (his
mentor? no, more like a
fellow victim of misery)
who advises him to just
keep the peace. So he
becomes more and more
passive, while she
becomes more and more
dominant. He hates it,
she hates it, and
they're each CAUSING the
other to behave this
way.
It's kind of like having
a dual control electric
blanket, and the
controls are switched.
The cold natured person
keeps turning the
temperature up but keeps
getting colder and the
warm natured person
keeps turning the
temperature down but
keeps getting hotter!
YOU HAVE TO SWITCH THE
CONTROLS ... DUH!
In this scenario, each
person loses respect for
their spouse. Many end
up divorcing, but many
just endure for the rest
of their lives,
continuing in the mutual
torture, when marriage
is supposed to be
mutually satisfying. I
should repeat however,
many of these couples
are really not
soul-mates to begin
with, and were too hasty
to marry before they
found out the TRUTH of
the matter ... Some
things were just never
MEANT to be, but we
humans like to think we
know what we're doing
without making
absolutely certain with
God beforehand.
For these reasons (and
others), people get in
the habit of being
sarcastic, mean, and
bitter in their everyday
lives with their
selected mate. If there
was once any affection
between the two, it
vanishes, sometimes quickly and sometimes over time, and the mutual
disrespect is observed
by friends, and family,
especially the children
who adopt the same
characteristics
(believing that it's
normal) and the cycle
just keeps on going.
Note: Jesus never wants
His bride to lose
affection for Him ...
EVER!
If you find yourself in
this predicament, you
may secretly have
thought that you have
trouble being a virtuous
woman ... because your
man is ... Less than
virtuous. He isn't a
take control kinda guy.
He's weak and spineless.
He has no ambition, he's
not easily motivated,
he's lazy, he's
inconsiderate, he's this
and that and there's
hardly a good quality
you can think of about
him. And why should you
be such a jewel for such
a slob, eh?
(Here comes that
"Caution" part I was
telling you about.)
Have you been chanting
...
I'M
the king of the
castle, and
YOU'RE
the dirty rascal!
... To your husband?
(Not out loud of course,
but in the back of your
mind.)
HOW TO BECOME A GOOD WIFE BIBLE WARNING
BEING A GOOD WIFE BIBLE DANGER
Have YOU created a
monster? If you weren't
such a persistent little
cuss, would he have
acquired the kind of
masculinity that you
wish he now had? Not
necessarily, but maybe.
If not out of necessity,
out of naturalness. If
he had laid down the law
right from the get go,
would you have embraced
the feminine role and
allowed him to be the
leader and king of the
castle? Truthfully ...
Most women would have
fought it, because of
what has been instilled
in them. Would you have
cut him down if he tried
to be the ruler of the
roost, because of the
principles you were
taught in your
upbringing?
(Just a little side note
... I feared that the
word "cuss" may have
been a bit abrasive for
some, so I looked it up
in my Webster's for
y'all. Of course the
word is a homograph ...
One of two or more words
spelled alike but
differing in meaning.
The first meaning of
course is: CURSE or
SWEAR. The second
meaning, which I had
always assumed meant
brat, or the like, is
not, but appropriately
enough is: FELLOW! So,
being an avid fan of
clean humor, I feel
justified in addressing
women who want to
dominate their men with
the epithet "persistent
little cuss.")
There are lots and lots
of questions to ask
yourself. There are two
sides to every story.
The question is, can you
be woman enough to admit
it, repent, and work
hard to help a man that
quite possibly YOU
contributed to turning
into a wimp, to become
the man you want him to
be? The man of your
dreams may be being held
captive ... BY YOU!
Again, please remember this:
If this does not apply to you,
chances are, you know
someone to whom it does
and perhaps someday you
can help another sister
in Christ with your
objective understanding
of their situation.
Now, granted, there are
some instances where the
Lord has brought people
together with a plan to
save a weak soul, and it
may involve a lot of
strength on the woman's
part, but it's probably
a pretty good bet that
if the strength that was
intended to save, has
turned into dominance
instead of edifying and
uplifting your soul-mate
to where he eventually
acquires the strength
needed to be dominant,
then you're no longer on
a rescue mission from
God, you're on the road
to destruction. The
bottom line is, neither
of you are doing any
good as a servant of the
Lord if you're living
under such duress. You
must decide if this is
truly your soul-mate
sent from God and that
your marriage is holy in
His eyes or if you're
both just growing old
graciously (?) because
of obligation or fear or
some other distorted
reason. ASK THE HOLY
SPIRIT FOR GUIDANCE.
If you decide that you
are indeed soul-mates,
it's time to fix your
relationship. Somebody
has to make the first
move. You must step down
before he can step up.
Absolutely no person
should ever be used as a
ladder, so that someone
else can feel taller. A castle does not have two kings.
Granted, this may not be
the EXACT scenario, but
in general, this fits
most of the
"matrimonially
challenged" marriages
you will find.
Infidelity and other
passion crimes (if
you'll excuse the
expression) are usually
off shoots of this
general problem which is
the root.
HOW TO BECOME A GOOD WIFE BIBLE GRACE
BEING A GOOD WIFE BIBLE GIFTS
You may give yourself
reasons that seem very
valid for your actions.
You may believe that if
you didn't "wear the
pants" in the family,
you would be financially
kaput. No matter what
excuses you come up with
... Something isn't
working. If you haven't
figured out the TRUTH of
the role of the man and
the role of the woman by
now, we will be working
on it more throughout
the program, so don't
lose heart.
If you have already gone
through a divorce
because of circumstances
similar to what we're
talking about, remember
that sometimes the Lord
takes things away that
get between us and Him,
so before you start
getting down on yourself
for divorcing, if you've
already taken that
route, you may want to
reflect on that.
Another thing to
consider is that God's
timing isn't always our
timing. What do I mean
by that? If you have
divorced, sometimes a
purpose will come along
in your life very
quickly to bring you
closer to the Lord and
glorifying Him, but some
people need to learn
other lessons before an
obvious reason appears
for what has happened.
Be patient. Press on.
Don't give up.
And sometimes, difficult as it may be to face, we do things that are not in God's plan. We are wrong. We do wrong things. Does that mean that we are worthless? Does that mean we are unforgivable? Does
that mean our future is doomed? Does that mean that we cannot take our wrongs and ask God to make them work for GOOD? ASK!
Your loved ones,
especially of the female
gender will lift an
eyebrow at you and
express that they think
you're crazy to let a
man rule you like the
Bible teaches. Don't be
bullied into taking the
world's view. There are
Christians that do and
will support you in your
choices.
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Matthew
12:46-50
While He yet
talked to
the people,
behold, His
mother and
His brethren
stood
without,
desiring to
speak with
Him. Then
one said
unto Him,
Behold, thy
mother and
thy brethren
stand
without,
desiring to
speak with
thee. But He
answered and
said unto
him that
told Him,
Who is my
mother? and
who are my
brethren?
And He
stretched
forth His
hand toward
His
disciples,
and said,
Behold my
mother and
my brethren!
For
whosoever
shall do the
will of my
Father which
is in
Heaven, the
same is my
brother, and
sister, and
mother. |
HOW TO BECOME A GOOD WIFE BIBLE LESSON
BEING A GOOD WIFE BIBLE FEARS
You must understand that
they have not seen the
light that you have.
Remember, Jesus' own
family doubted His
identity, and that's why
He taught us:
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Matthew
13:57
And they
were
offended in
Him. But
Jesus said
unto them, A
Prophet is
not without
honour, save
in his own
country, and
in his own
house. |
... So, you could change
the direction of the
"tradition" of your
family, the way your
sons and daughters view
the proper role of man
and woman, and put an
end to generations of
unrighteousness, but
beware, because it was
YOU that discovered it,
and those who are close
to you can't believe
that little ol' you
could possibly discover
anything so profound,
they will most probably
choose to oppose you.
Don't be surprised.
Oh dear friend, have I
mentioned the
peacefulness in your
soul that you will
embrace when you start
this new way of life and
God's grace and
blessings shower down on
you because you have
chosen righteousness
over selfishness? Better
get an umbrella!
CHANGING COURSE
Wouldn't it be nice to
purposely do something
"good" for your
soul-mate, every chance
you can get? Don't keep
a tally of who owes who
for good deeds done, and
don't let laziness
hinder you from it. Even
if you've been together
for 50 years, you can
leave a nice little note
or bring breakfast in
bed or cook a special
candlelight dinner or
pack a little picnic or
write a love poem or
leave chocolate kisses
in a briefcase or a
lunchbox. There are
countless ways to be
good to one another.
It's contagious you
know.
HOW TO BECOME A GOOD WIFE BIBLE SUMMARY
BEING A GOOD WIFE BIBLE CONCLUSION
If you don't have an
earthly husband, I bet
Jesus would love it if
you did any of those
kind of things for or
with Him, too. A picnic, even a cup of coffee, just you and the
Holy Spirit together ...
Let the love flow!
Just a thought.
And as always, reflect
on God's grace, every
day of your life.
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STEP #4
Meditate on:
GOODNESS
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Study:
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to write in
your
Personal
Journal!
Go back over
each step
often to be
sure you
have not
missed
anything.
To
continue our program,
select:
STEP #5
I’ll meet you there!
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